lol.

you got me fucked up.

a thread.
the hardest part about dating these days is the obsession everyone has to “not be pressed”.

that nonchalant shit is cool and all until you come across a bitch like me that’s gon let you live your truth.

without me. lmao.

you got me fucked up.
to be clear, I have never & WILL NOT ever date someone for what they can do for me.

meaning 9x/10 I’m wit you bc of how u make me feel.

.....the fact you CANT do shit for me should push you to be a better partner. It’s the least you could do...

lmao.

you got me fucked up.
I am 100% permitted to receive the space I asked for.

without the additional bullshit.

I should be able to protect my mind and get back right without coming back from a brief hiatus

to straight bullshit.

lol.

you got me fucked up.
don’t ever think you can use MY words against ME.

I’m a mf who knows EXACTLY what they say and EXACTLY how they feel.

that reverse psychology shit is manipulative as fuck.

wrong bitch, my love.

you got me fucked up.
you can’t demand all my time

but I can’t have all of yours...

make it make sense, lmaoo.

you got me fucked up.
I do NOT tolerate people who claim shit is soooo “childish”

WHILE they are doing childish ass shit.

lmaoo.

you’re contradicting yourself, luv.
turn that criticism toward yourself, luv.

you got me fucked up.
I value my peace and my sanity

infinitely times more than I value some dick or pussy.

please understand I have NO issue moving on or blocking you.

you got me fucked up.
...dating is DATING.

we get to know eachother. we grow. we communicate. we are adjusting to one another.

sometimes there will be disagreements.

that’s fucking normal.

imagine being grown as hell, unable to communicate & trying to bag ME.

lol

you got me fucked up.
I’m sex-positive

and sexual overall

but please don’t let that deter you from the fact I like relationships of substance.

all these people on this earth,

and you think I’ll settle for ya bullshit?

.....for the sex????

lmao!

you got me fucked up.
I’m 110% open to giving effort....

To doing what I need to in favor of maintaining a healthy relationship..

but you GET what you GIVE, bitch.

I deserve back every fucking ounce of effort I put in.

lmao..

you got me fucked up.
If you openly disclose to me

that youre fucked up

or lack the capacity to have something real with me,

it does NOT make me the villain for choosing to dead the friendship.

it’s not my job to stick around & fix you.

lmao.

you got me fucked up.
you are you.

I am I.

two individuals.

I don’t have to share all your ideas, beliefs, & theories.

& I don’t expect you to share all of mine—

trying to make me feel problematic because I don’t agree with certain shit isn’t gonna go well for you.

you got me fucked up.
basic loyalty and basic respect go a VERY long way with me.

the second you desert either of those concepts,

and cross a line with disloyalty or disrespect,

I literally no longer have use for you.

you got me fucked up.
just because I’m 22 or younger than you

should NOT give you implication I can be swayed or manipulated.

sorry to break it to you, babe,

but you just came across a real bitch for the first time in your life.

act accordingly.

lmao.

you got me fucked up.
I fucking hate saying shit like this—

but humbly speaking,

I have MORE than enough options.

if you got my time, show a little respect for it.

you fumbled the bag?

BIG yikes, boo.

I don’t need to trip over you...lol.

you got me fucked up.
expressing how I feel

or voicing a frustration

does NOT automatically fucking mean I’m upset.

it does NOT mean I’m trying to argue.

it means I’m good at communicating and expressing myself to someone that’s TRYING TO BE WITH ME, stupid bitch!

you got me fucked up.
I don’t OWE you SHIT. let’s be clear.

not an explanation, not an apology, not closure,

& damn sure not another chance.

anything I give U is bc of a choice made on MY end.

you cannot manipulate me into fulfilling ur wants if I simply don’t want to.

you got me fucked up.
I may not be perfect but I am a self-aware ass mothafucka!

& I’m fully versed in the mantra of knowing my worth+protecting my peace.

if you pursue me, act accordingly.

dating is only difficult when u try with people who don’t know how to date!!

YOU GOT ME FUCKED UP.

FIN.
The most organized dating life rant I’ve EVER done. Lolol

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