I have some things to get off my chest about the toxic side of bear culture. Stay tuned.
Bears scream body positivity, but are plagued by muscle body obsession. As a slimmer guy, I find the bigger guys judgmental and don’t socialize with me. Like I don’t belong or something.

What happen to just embracing one another?
Also: Let’s talk about race in the bear community. POC are excluded and even shunned from events. We are treated sexual niches; only guy that want racialized sex want to fuck us. “BBC, Desi, Rice Queen, Spicy Latin” ect. ect.
We are only wanted when we fulfill a white man’s need.

I have been told that I’m not as attractive because of things I cant change. That I don’t belong in a space because I’m not sexually attractive to them.

But do you say that to the fellow white guys you’re not attracted 2?
Being in an interracial couple: Guys of all races praise and chase white bears. It’s facts. When I stand next to my bf, I get ignored or physically pushed away so they can try to fuck him.

I get mean stares, looking at me like I’m a barrier, just in the way.
Some guys legit find ways to try to steal my man away because he can “do better”.

Like I’m that unattractive? No.

You are problematic gays that are no better than your white straight brothers.
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