Healing after betrayal and heartbreak starts with assessing the facts. They’ve disrespected you in an unforgivable way. They didn’t give a FUCK about you or your feelings. Instead of pitying yourself, pity THEM. They are deeply pathetic and they‘ve lost your respect. And you.

Blaming yourself for the irrational actions of others will get you nowhere. It’s so easy to blame yourself. It’s so easy to feel humiliated. It’s so easy to feel the crushing weight of disappointment and feel weighed down. But remember that their issues are their own. Not yours.

A betrayal is simply an act of self interest. Whatever they’ve done, they’ve done it to get a certain outcome they wanted. They wanted something and were willing to lose you in the process. They WILLINGLY took that risk. You don’t want someone who could EVER take that risk.

You have questions. You have so many questions because you want answers. But let me tell you this. That answer that you’re looking for? They’ve answered it. The second that they made the decision to risk losing your respect, your love and your trust? That tells you EVERYTHING.

Thanks bae