
tw//suicidal thoughts, mental health, depression
my letter started off... āhi 2020 anya, did you make it? i hope itās you reading & not one of your family members who found this tucked away in your diary. i rly hope itās youā
my headspace was at its worst. i moved away from home in julā18 & was so done with life..
my headspace was at its worst. i moved away from home in julā18 & was so done with life..
i didnāt wanna keep going and i thought, iām away from my family and friends, no one would really care...then my mom + sister came to visit me for the holidays, and i bargained. i said, ok, one last christmas and ny. then iām done.
but on december 31, jimin dropped promise. his first ever solo song. his words moved me.... and for some reason i changed my mind.. i read the lyrics to his song and i felt like this was some call from the universe.
āPromise me now. even if you feel alone many times a day, donāt throw away yourself. Pause for a moment right here, hook your pinky with mine, & promise me now.ā
these lyrics saved my life.
these lyrics saved my life.
i was waiting... my mom and sister would leave the first week of january. by the end of the month i would move into my own apartment. it all seemed like the āperfect set up.ā
but just before 2018 came to a close, jimin reached his hand out to me and told me to keep holding on.
but just before 2018 came to a close, jimin reached his hand out to me and told me to keep holding on.
i canāt even express how grateful i am for jimin. for bangtan. for ateez. these boys really helped me smile in those last 5 months of 2018. i thought, at least if iām gonna leave here, i can go knowing i was loved and even just a lil happy.
i wrote my letter for 2020 anya to read with tears in my eyes, promise playing in the background, and so much hope in my heart that iāll be ok. that i just need to keep fighting. and i just need to embrace the light and also the days that feel so dark.. i had to hold on
this 2019 was not easy, some days i almost gave up. but there was always something new to look forward to and i held on. so many ppl on this bird app kept me going, i travelled to beautiful places and on some days i can actually say i was truly happy.
iām writing my letter tonight for 2021 anya to read and for some reason, i know iāll read it then. iāll keep writing letters to my future self. iāll listen to beautiful songs. iāll hold on and learn to love myself on the good and bad days.
i feel like this thread is all over the place but if you made it this far, thank you for reading my story.
i feel like i didnāt do much in 2019 but i survived it. iām alive and right now that is way more than enough for me.
happy 2020 loves
i feel like i didnāt do much in 2019 but i survived it. iām alive and right now that is way more than enough for me.
happy 2020 loves
