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The best books I read in 2019
1. The Social Leap by @BillvonHippel
https://amzn.to/2SdCNx8
"At least since the steamship, people have traveled the globe with relative ease. Yet no one thought to put wheels on a suitcase until 1970, and they didn't catch on until 1987"
1. The Social Leap by @BillvonHippel
https://amzn.to/2SdCNx8
"At least since the steamship, people have traveled the globe with relative ease. Yet no one thought to put wheels on a suitcase until 1970, and they didn't catch on until 1987"
2. Blueprint by Robert Plomin
https://amzn.to/2Q7EedM
“The average IQ score difference between siblings is 13 points, not that far off the average difference of 17 points for pairs of individuals selected at random from the population.”
https://amzn.to/2Q7EedM
“The average IQ score difference between siblings is 13 points, not that far off the average difference of 17 points for pairs of individuals selected at random from the population.”
3. The Laws of Human Nature by @RobertGreene
https://amzn.to/2QciXzB
“To the extrovert, the introvert has no fun, is stubborn, even antisocial. To the introvert, the extrovert is shallow, flighty, and overly concerned with what people think.”
https://amzn.to/2QciXzB
“To the extrovert, the introvert has no fun, is stubborn, even antisocial. To the introvert, the extrovert is shallow, flighty, and overly concerned with what people think.”
How The Mind Works by @sapinker
https://amzn.to/35QrWNv
"no society can be simultaneously fair, free, and equal. If it is fair, people who work harder can accumulate more. If it is free, people will give their wealth to their children. But then it cannot be equal"
https://amzn.to/35QrWNv
"no society can be simultaneously fair, free, and equal. If it is fair, people who work harder can accumulate more. If it is free, people will give their wealth to their children. But then it cannot be equal"
Culture of Narcissism by Christopher Lasch
https://amzn.to/34SdH9H
“Modern life is so mediated by electronic images that we cannot help responding to others as if their actions- and our own- were being transmitted to an unseen audience or stored for scrutiny at some later time”
https://amzn.to/34SdH9H
“Modern life is so mediated by electronic images that we cannot help responding to others as if their actions- and our own- were being transmitted to an unseen audience or stored for scrutiny at some later time”
Cognitive Gadgets by @CeliaHeyes
https://amzn.to/2PQvmdH
“children show prestige bias; they are more likely to copy a model that adults regard as being higher social status- for example, their head-teacher rather than an equally familiar person of the same age and gender.”
https://amzn.to/2PQvmdH
“children show prestige bias; they are more likely to copy a model that adults regard as being higher social status- for example, their head-teacher rather than an equally familiar person of the same age and gender.”
Thinking in Bets by @AnnieDuke
“Despite the popular wisdom that we achieve success through positive visualization, it turns out that...people who imagine obstacles are more likely to achieve success”
https://amzn.to/2QiNLi8
“Despite the popular wisdom that we achieve success through positive visualization, it turns out that...people who imagine obstacles are more likely to achieve success”
https://amzn.to/2QiNLi8
Political Tribes by @amychua
https://amzn.to/374QlPG
“I think protesting is almost a status symbol for elites. That’s why they always post pictures on Facebook, so all their friends know they’re protesting.”
https://amzn.to/374QlPG
“I think protesting is almost a status symbol for elites. That’s why they always post pictures on Facebook, so all their friends know they’re protesting.”
Demons (The Devils) by Fyodor Dostoevsky
https://amzn.to/2SonUba
“My dear, the real truth always sounds improbable, do you know that? To make the truth sound probable you must always mix in some falsehood with it. Men have always done so.”
https://amzn.to/2SonUba
“My dear, the real truth always sounds improbable, do you know that? To make the truth sound probable you must always mix in some falsehood with it. Men have always done so.”
Pre-Suasion by @RobertCialdini
https://amzn.to/35UFeIX
“An analysis of 500 attorneys found that the harder an attorney’s name was to pronounce, the lower he or she stayed in the firm’s hierarchy. This effect held independent of the foreignness of the names.”
https://amzn.to/35UFeIX
“An analysis of 500 attorneys found that the harder an attorney’s name was to pronounce, the lower he or she stayed in the firm’s hierarchy. This effect held independent of the foreignness of the names.”
Our Inner Ape by Frans de Waal
https://amzn.to/379kWf4
“One monkey stopped responding for 12 days after witnessing a companion being shocked each time they pulled a handle to get food for themselves. They were literally starving themselves to avoid inflicting pain on others.”
https://amzn.to/379kWf4
“One monkey stopped responding for 12 days after witnessing a companion being shocked each time they pulled a handle to get food for themselves. They were literally starving themselves to avoid inflicting pain on others.”
The Rational Optimist by @mattwridley
https://amzn.to/2SrpKIG
“Random violence makes the news precisely because it is so rare, routine kindness does not make the news precisely because it is so commonplace."
https://amzn.to/2SrpKIG
“Random violence makes the news precisely because it is so rare, routine kindness does not make the news precisely because it is so commonplace."
Why Women Have Sex by Cindy Meston & David Buss
https://amzn.to/2tSvHnF
“Most women who have affairs are deeply unhappy with their marriages...it is not true of men. Men who have affairs do not differ from men who remain faithful in terms of their level of marital happiness!”
https://amzn.to/2tSvHnF
“Most women who have affairs are deeply unhappy with their marriages...it is not true of men. Men who have affairs do not differ from men who remain faithful in terms of their level of marital happiness!”
Evil by Roy Baumeister https://amzn.to/372GAkW
“In the history of the world, increased recognition of differences between groups has led more often to conflict and violence than to peaceful cooperation and sharing. America is now making a dangerous gamble on the opposite result"
“In the history of the world, increased recognition of differences between groups has led more often to conflict and violence than to peaceful cooperation and sharing. America is now making a dangerous gamble on the opposite result"
“Research has found that most men find most women at least somewhat sexually attractive, whereas most women do not find most men sexually attractive at all.”
https://amzn.to/34XG0U4
https://amzn.to/34XG0U4
“attractive defendants were twice as likely to avoid jail as unattractive ones...a defendant who was better-looking than his victim had to pay an average of $5,623; but when the victim was more attractive, the average compensation was $10,051.”
https://amzn.to/34W9vG7
https://amzn.to/34W9vG7
“If you think that you are doing something that is on the side of good, then whoever opposes you must be evil. To perceive them as any less is to diminish one’s own claim to be good...to sustain one’s goodness, it is essential to see the enemy as evil.”
https://amzn.to/2ZpxTP9
https://amzn.to/2ZpxTP9
Blueprint by @NAChristakis
https://amzn.to/2MtX8un
If you consider someone to be your friend, there is a 34 percent chance they consider you to be their friend
If you consider someone to be your enemy, there is a 5 percent chance they consider you to be their enemy
https://amzn.to/2MtX8un
If you consider someone to be your friend, there is a 34 percent chance they consider you to be their friend
If you consider someone to be your enemy, there is a 5 percent chance they consider you to be their enemy
“In fact, findings from cross-cultural studies suggest that in-group bias is higher in collectivist societies (including communist societies) than it is in individualist societies which stress autonomy.”
https://amzn.to/39bnRWn
https://amzn.to/39bnRWn
The Ape that Understood The Universe by @SteveStuWill
https://amzn.to/2MuaR4f
“A little excess fear is exactly what evolutionary principles would predict...’the cost of getting killed even once is higher than the cost of responding to a hundred false alarms.’”
https://amzn.to/2MuaR4f
“A little excess fear is exactly what evolutionary principles would predict...’the cost of getting killed even once is higher than the cost of responding to a hundred false alarms.’”
Sex, Power and Partisanship https://amzn.to/2QcMNE0
“primates lower on the hierarchy have a fitness incentive to adopt political philosophies that seek to right power imbalances..those same primates also have an incentive to revert to a hierarchical order once they assume power”
“primates lower on the hierarchy have a fitness incentive to adopt political philosophies that seek to right power imbalances..those same primates also have an incentive to revert to a hierarchical order once they assume power”
The Secret Life of Pronouns by @jwpennebaker
https://amzn.to/2QjoCnz
“From age 13 to 20, our self-esteem drops...Thereafter, to age 70, self-esteem gradually increases. In fact, by age 65, many of us feel as good as when we were 9 years old, which is as good as it ever gets.”
https://amzn.to/2QjoCnz
“From age 13 to 20, our self-esteem drops...Thereafter, to age 70, self-esteem gradually increases. In fact, by age 65, many of us feel as good as when we were 9 years old, which is as good as it ever gets.”
https://amzn.to/350h4eB
“Of all human emotions, none is trickier or more elusive than envy...as soon as we feel the pangs, we disguise it to ourselves—it is not envy we feel but unfairness of the distribution of goods or attention, resentment at this unfairness, even anger”
“Of all human emotions, none is trickier or more elusive than envy...as soon as we feel the pangs, we disguise it to ourselves—it is not envy we feel but unfairness of the distribution of goods or attention, resentment at this unfairness, even anger”
On Writing by @StephenKing
https://amzn.to/2Znjh2G
“If you intend to write as truthfully as you can, your days as a member of polite society are numbered."
https://amzn.to/2Znjh2G
“If you intend to write as truthfully as you can, your days as a member of polite society are numbered."
Date-onomics by Jon Birger
https://amzn.to/2tTOJKt
"there are 5.5 million college-educated women between 22-29, versus only 4.1 million college-educated men in the same age bracket...the dating pool for college graduates has 33% more women than men—or 4 women for every 3 men"
https://amzn.to/2tTOJKt
"there are 5.5 million college-educated women between 22-29, versus only 4.1 million college-educated men in the same age bracket...the dating pool for college graduates has 33% more women than men—or 4 women for every 3 men"
“Modern people have trouble believing that preliterate tribes go to war over women...Across the world, the best-fed foraging people’s are the most warlike...‘Even though we like meat, we like women a whole lot more.‘“
https://amzn.to/2PU5wp8
https://amzn.to/2PU5wp8
The Case Against Education by @bryan_caplan
https://amzn.to/2QhlfO5
"the marriage market is probably the strongest reason to pay for expensive private schools. Going to Harvard may not get you a better job but almost certainly puts you in an exclusive dating pool for life"
https://amzn.to/2QhlfO5
"the marriage market is probably the strongest reason to pay for expensive private schools. Going to Harvard may not get you a better job but almost certainly puts you in an exclusive dating pool for life"
“parents were more motivated to pass wealth to sons because the reproductive benefits that accrue to wealthy sons are greater than the benefits that accrue to wealthy daughters. Partially because of these sex differences, gender inequality spread”
https://amzn.to/2PVYCj5
https://amzn.to/2PVYCj5
“stepparenthood is the strongest risk factor for child abuse ever identified..a stepparent is 40-100 times more likely to kill a young child, even when confounding factors— poverty, mother’s age, traits of people who tend to remarry—are taken into account" https://amzn.to/2Mqef04
“wealth has only a trivial effect on happiness unless we have more than those around us, suggesting it is status and not money that we are really after"
https://amzn.to/2MtfRGe
https://amzn.to/2MtfRGe
“male stupidity is actually an adaptation to female choosiness, as male risk taking and conflict are products of sexual selection...risk taking is an honest signal of how robust & skilled a person is...women can use male risk taking as a sign of quality”
https://amzn.to/39fmw0u
https://amzn.to/39fmw0u
“our brains were shaped for fitness, not for truth. Sometimes truth is adaptive, but sometimes it is not. Conflicts of interest are inherent to the human condition, and we are apt to want our version of the truth, rather than the truth itself, to prevail”
https://amzn.to/2sknFU4
https://amzn.to/2sknFU4
The Body Keeps the Score https://amzn.to/2Qf6qeQ
The costs of child abuse “exceeded those of cancer or heart disease...eradicating child abuse would reduce depression by more than half, alcoholism by two-thirds...suicide and IV drug use, and domestic violence by three-quarters”
The costs of child abuse “exceeded those of cancer or heart disease...eradicating child abuse would reduce depression by more than half, alcoholism by two-thirds...suicide and IV drug use, and domestic violence by three-quarters”
Coming Apart by @charlesmurray
Children living with both biological parents
Affluent families in 1960: 95%
Working class families in 1960: 95%
Affluent families in 2005: 85%
Working class families in 2005: 30%
https://amzn.to/2Motg2z
Children living with both biological parents
Affluent families in 1960: 95%
Working class families in 1960: 95%
Affluent families in 2005: 85%
Working class families in 2005: 30%
https://amzn.to/2Motg2z
Evolutionary Psychology by David Buss
https://amzn.to/2t6cZs1
“children living with one genetic parent and one stepparent are roughly 40 times more likely to be abused than children living with both genetic parents...even when poverty and socioeconomic status are controlled"
https://amzn.to/2t6cZs1
“children living with one genetic parent and one stepparent are roughly 40 times more likely to be abused than children living with both genetic parents...even when poverty and socioeconomic status are controlled"
“Successful women turned out to place an even greater value than less professionally successful women on mates who have professional degrees, high social status, and greater intelligence and who are tall, independent, and self-confident”
https://amzn.to/2t6cZs1
https://amzn.to/2t6cZs1
The Science of Storytelling by @wstorr
https://amzn.to/2EVbpfv
“if we’re psychologically healthy, our brain makes us feel as if we’re the moral heroes at the centre of the unfolding plots of our lives. Any ‘facts’ tend to be subordinate to that story”
https://amzn.to/2EVbpfv
“if we’re psychologically healthy, our brain makes us feel as if we’re the moral heroes at the centre of the unfolding plots of our lives. Any ‘facts’ tend to be subordinate to that story”
"a man who dates an unattractive woman experiences a moderate decrease in status, whereas a woman who dates an unattractive man experiences only a trivial decrease in status...having an unattractive mate hurts a man’s status more than it does a woman’s"
https://amzn.to/2t6cZs1
https://amzn.to/2t6cZs1
Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl
https://amzn.to/2so83ie
"success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side-effect...success will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think of it"
https://amzn.to/2so83ie
"success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side-effect...success will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think of it"
Emotional arcs of stories:
-Rags to riches (rising emotion)
-Riches to rags (falling emotion)
-Man in a hole (fall then rise)
-Icarus (rise then fall)
-Oedipus (fall, rise, fall)
Most commercially successful:
-Icarus
-Oedipus
-2 sequential man in a holes
https://amzn.to/34Tvtcv
-Rags to riches (rising emotion)
-Riches to rags (falling emotion)
-Man in a hole (fall then rise)
-Icarus (rise then fall)
-Oedipus (fall, rise, fall)
Most commercially successful:
-Icarus
-Oedipus
-2 sequential man in a holes
https://amzn.to/34Tvtcv
“When the data scientist David Robinson analyzed 112,000 plots including books, movies, television episodes, and video games, his algorithm found one common story shape...’Things get worse and worse, until, at the last minute, they get better.’”
https://amzn.to/37jWFTJ
https://amzn.to/37jWFTJ
Cultural Revolution by Frank Dikötter
https://amzn.to/2tRD2nr https://twitter.com/robkhenderson/status/1196524406970966016
https://amzn.to/2tRD2nr https://twitter.com/robkhenderson/status/1196524406970966016
"Mao went straight to the students, seeing in the young his most reliable allies. They were impressionable, easy to manipulate and eager to fight...‘We have to depend on them to start a rebellion, a revolution'"
https://amzn.to/2Stokgr
https://amzn.to/2Stokgr
“male-typical traits such as beards and deep voices may be more about intimidating other men than they are about attracting women. In other words, these traits may be deers’ antlers rather than peacocks’ tails.“
https://amzn.to/376Kf1c
https://amzn.to/376Kf1c
Vision of the Anointed by @ThomasSowell
https://amzn.to/2PW7pBB
“The family is an obstacle to schemes for control...Engels’ 1st draft of the Communist Manifesto included a deliberate undermining of family bonds...Marx was astute enough to leave that out of the final version”
https://amzn.to/2PW7pBB
“The family is an obstacle to schemes for control...Engels’ 1st draft of the Communist Manifesto included a deliberate undermining of family bonds...Marx was astute enough to leave that out of the final version”
Survival in the Killing Fields by Haing Ngor
https://amzn.to/37amKV8 https://twitter.com/robkhenderson/status/1201161820586889217
https://amzn.to/37amKV8 https://twitter.com/robkhenderson/status/1201161820586889217
“contrary to stubborn anthropological myth, people everywhere fall in love...the idea that romantic love is an invention of Western culture is itself an invention of Western culture”
https://amzn.to/2PWzGrN
https://amzn.to/2PWzGrN
"66% of high school students say they're bored in class every day...a major Gates Foundation study ranked boredom as the most important reason why kids drop out of high school"
https://amzn.to/2Spje52
https://amzn.to/2Spje52
”Loserthink” by @ScottAdamsSays
“The clearest signal you’re in a cult is that other members of the group actively try to prevent you from exchanging ideas with outsiders.”
https://amzn.to/2tMz3Za
“The clearest signal you’re in a cult is that other members of the group actively try to prevent you from exchanging ideas with outsiders.”
https://amzn.to/2tMz3Za
Everyday Stalinism by Sheila Fitzpatrick https://amzn.to/39fy8k8
"Some became virtually professional public denouncers during the Great Purges..decided super-vigilance was the way to save their own skins and made a point of writing denunciations of everyone in their environment"
"Some became virtually professional public denouncers during the Great Purges..decided super-vigilance was the way to save their own skins and made a point of writing denunciations of everyone in their environment"
Good Reasons for Bad Feelings by @RandyNesse
https://amzn.to/34WCv0j
“Natural selection shaped us to care enormously about what other people think about our resources, abilities, and character...Low self-esteem is a signal to try harder to please others.”
https://amzn.to/34WCv0j
“Natural selection shaped us to care enormously about what other people think about our resources, abilities, and character...Low self-esteem is a signal to try harder to please others.”
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