Effort is everything

There is something special about someone trying.

Maybe I asked for a pair of #Tiffany studs for Christmas, but I get a pair of #Swarovski earrings instead ----> I& #39;d still be happy because of the effort that was made

A person that cares makes an effort...
Some of you are in relationships where most of the effort comes from you

If you don& #39;t call, there is no talking

If you don& #39;t message, there is no messaging

If you don& #39;t suggest an outing, there is no going out

Been there, done that, got the T-shirt!

It hurts!
In my case, because I was eager-to-please I would set the texture of the situationship by doing too much, too soon. (I have looked back on my life. I had situationships. Hard to admit but ya)

There is a "too much too soon"

The other person quickly figures you out and it& #39;s overs
After a while, you want your person to do stuff for you

Like the random phone call during the day.

But why should they make the effort because they know that you& #39;re going to call?

So this December, take a good honest look at your relationship or situationship
If you& #39;re always doing stuff. If you& #39;re always suggesting outings. If you& #39;re always giving money, gifts, your time, etc ... take a step back. It& #39;s not easy. But try it. Hold back a bit and see if any effort comes from the other side

You& #39;ll learn a lot about your relationship
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It hurts Unathi
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