My therapist is invaluable. I highly recommend everyone try it. Get tipsy before the first visit, if reluctant to talk. How is a therapist better than just talking to friends? See below. https://twitter.com/BabaGlocal/status/1200725183134199808">https://twitter.com/BabaGloca...
A therapist can help you recognise your own failings, problematic behaviours, misinterpretations of things, catastrophising etc. & help you take responsibility. If a friend did that, it might seem very harsh. But the shrink is on your side.
When friends open up about their problems, it& #39;s wonderful. But I never say "aren& #39;t you exaggerating? isn& #39;t this partly your fault?" etc. because that would be hurtful & also I tend to give friends the benefit of the doubt. The therapist is like a personal trainer for the mind.
He (or she: mine is a man) can be clear with you, without worrying about hurting your feelings or losing your friendship. (I literally love my shrink, but we& #39;re not friends: it& #39;s a different kind of relationship.)
You can also accept criticism from the shrink without dismissing it as motivated by jealousy, rivalry, etc. Especially because he/she will also, ideally, be extremely accepting of the character traits/behaviours that *aren& #39;t* hurting you & that you don& #39;t want or need to change.
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