A woman comes in my mentions and says, "most black men hate black women." I explain to her I& #39;m not one of those men and that a lot of men simply hate themselves. Another follower shows me pictures from her account of her with her white spouse or BF and their daughter.
No shots at her but she fits a profile. The more "anti-black man" a black woman is, the more she& #39;s usually trying to reconcile something in her personal life. Let me speak plainly. Women, all women, seek security in a man. Be it physical, financial or emotional, or all three.
The black man, generally speaking, is the least capable to provide the financial security, and his financial shortcomings impact physical and emotional security before long. Financial inadequacy will destroy a man& #39;s confidence and render him socially irrelevant and unattractive.
This causes women to deem a man, any man, USELESS. From there the disrespect begins. "What good are you?!" A lot of us are ASSUMED to be useless based on pigmentation alone. Men in this position start to hate themselves and as a result hate women for "not understanding."
Years ago I was in Vegas for the Mayweather/Alvarez match. I hopped in a cab and the driver was of middle eastern origin. He told me he used to drive cab in Atlantic City. I asked why come out here to do the same thing? His wife had gotten a promotion at Caesar& #39;s Palace.
He continued on about how once women start making more money than you they change. He further elaborated that he hadn& #39;t seen his kids in 6 years, and how he planned to move to Michigan and start over. I assumed there was an order of protection of some sort.
When he was done I shared this with him. I don& #39;t get upset with women for being women. A man cannot lead from the side or the rear. Once you show up in a woman& #39;s rear view mirror she loses interest.

This is tough for a lot of men to accept, but with maturity comes wisdom.
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