okay so I dont think a lot of people understand this, so I'm going to go ahead and tweet it. When I say an idol is beautiful, I'm not objectifying him. I'm dont bias "just for visual". I'm not shallow. I mean what I say. Yes, he is physically beautiful. But that's not what MAKES>

him beautiful. If he were dead and there were just an empty shell of him left would we still have millions and millions of comments admiring how beautiful he is?? no, because his soul is gone. his personality, his very being, the EPITOME of who he is, it's gone. so when I say>

"oh wow he is so beautiful" I mean, oh wow, HE is so beautiful. Him. who he is. he is beautiful and he is absolutely gorgeous to me because of the person he is. and when someone is genuine you'll see it. you'll see how beautiful they are no matter their looks or visuals. bc we>

are constantly preaching that "looks mean nothing compared to personality" and then get mad and say others are objectifying by referring to someone as handsome, gorgeous, beautiful, sexy, attractive, mind-blowingly otherworldly, pretty. but personality and looks go hand in hand?>

they definitely do! so why do we get angry at those who love on others by complimenting their beauty? why can't we already accept in our minds that personality/visual go hand in hand? bc when i say he is beautiful, i am thinking about his lips, yes. but im thinking of the way>

they look when he's smiling. I am thinking of his nose, yes. but i am thinking of the way it scrunches when he laughs and grins and frowns. i am thinking of his eyes, yes. but i am thinking of how beautiful and shiny they look when he's truly happy and the way they disappear>

when he laughs so hard you can see his gumline, and his eyes become lil crescents of happiness. i am thinking of his arms but i am thinking of the way he moves them. i am thinking of his hands but i am thinking of the passion with which he uses them. I am thinking of his beauty.>

I am thinking of his beauty.
I am thinking of his beauty.
I am thinking of his beauty.
I am thinking of his beauty.
I am thinking of his beauty.
and I am thinking of his beauty in simply /being/.
in simply breathing.
in simply existing.>

So don't tell me not to objectify him. dont tell me im not allowed to find every move he makes, every finger twitch, every gesture, every step he takes, every smile and flicker of happiness in his face and the way his cheeks rise when he smiles so hard that they MUST be hurting.>

dont tell me, for even a minute, that i cant find beauty in any of these things. dont tell me even for a MINUTE that I can't say he's beautiful because I'm "objectifying". because when i say he is beautiful, what i mean is he is my EVERYTHING. and he is radiant in his beauty.

I find him beautiful for simply being who he is. for simply living, for simply breathing, for simply existing. Don't tell me I can't say he's the prettiest thing I've ever seen. Don't tell me i cant stare in awe at his beauty. Don't tell me a single thing about beauty, because>

if you dont even think i can say he's pretty without objectifying, then you obviously dont understand the meaning of true beauty. Of genuine beauty. of raw pure unfiltered crystal-clear BEAUTY. so dont tell me I cant find him beautiful in everything he does. in all of his being.

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