let& #39;s talk. maybe it& #39;s just me, but i& #39;ve noticed a lot of twitter doms on here being all like, & #39;i want something with a sub that& #39;s going to last,& #39; being all emo and stuff but not being willing to put the emotional effort and care into keeping and nurturing a legitimate dynamic-

-with someone. what so many fake/twitter doms don& #39;t understand is that dynamics, whether irl or long distance, are hard. they require work and communication, and it& #39;s so much more than just sexual. if you& #39;re just in it for nudes and sexting, you& #39;re not a real dom. get the fuck-

-off this platform if that& #39;s you, and do some research. a lot of people ask me what a dynamic is to me - and it comes different to everyone, but overall? it& #39;s trust. a bond built on trust and care for one another and being there for one another. as a dom you& #39;re not there for sex-

-you& #39;re there to take care of and be there for your sub. you& #39;re there for your sub, bad days and good. ultimately you& #39;re there for them. they& #39;re your priority. that& #39;s what being a dom is. so if you want a deeper bond? something that lasts longer than a month? communicate. be-

-there for your sub, let them feel safe with you and trust you (it takes time, don& #39;t get impatient, it& #39;s worth it). and for the love of god please don& #39;t reduce everything down to sex. you want a sub? treat them right.