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let's talk. maybe it's just me, but i've noticed a lot of twitter doms on here being all like, 'i want something with a sub that's going to last,' being all emo and stuff but not being willing to put the emotional effort and care into keeping and nurturing a legitimate dynamic-
-with someone. what so many fake/twitter doms don't understand is that dynamics, whether irl or long distance, are hard. they require work and communication, and it's so much more than just sexual. if you're just in it for nudes and sexting, you're not a real dom. get the fuck-
-off this platform if that's you, and do some research. a lot of people ask me what a dynamic is to me - and it comes different to everyone, but overall? it's trust. a bond built on trust and care for one another and being there for one another. as a dom you're not there for sex-
-you're there to take care of and be there for your sub. you're there for your sub, bad days and good. ultimately you're there for them. they're your priority. that's what being a dom is. so if you want a deeper bond? something that lasts longer than a month? communicate. be-
-there for your sub, let them feel safe with you and trust you (it takes time, don't get impatient, it's worth it). and for the love of god please don't reduce everything down to sex. you want a sub? treat them right.
