as much as I don& #39;t care for cmbyn or think it is good....completely disregarding its impact or cinematic value (bc the dynamics are imbalanced and feel wrong by today& #39;s standards, it& #39;s kind of gross and horny, and the author is......creepy) is also wrong
where is the NUANCE yall
"this film is about an intense sexual relationship someone had in their teens with someone older than them" yeah, it& #39;s not right, but people....Do That
"the author said this thing represents pedophilia" A) where& #39;s the quote let me see it B) I doubt it C) I don& #39;t even go here but the majority of the peach...interaction is by elio, the younger person...
"gay men have said they don& #39;t like it and think it is bad representation" okay and some gay men have said that they do and think it& #39;s good
you don& #39;t get to speak for an entire community, even if you& #39;re in it, and you& #39;re most likely not
completely throwing out art because it makes you uncomfortable is not the way to engage with it