The holidays are approaching.

Retail workers are just trying to do their jobs. They don't set the prices. They don't get to choose whether your coupons work or not. It's not their fault the thing you want isn't in stock. Be kind to them.

Traffic will be bad. Be patient.

The holidays are traumatic for some people. Don't let them get you down, but don't judge them for not being as happy as you are.

The holidays are the happiest time of the year for other people. Let them enjoy themselves, and don't try to force your gloom onto them.

Not everyone celebrates the same holidays you do, or celebrates the same WAY you do. Be respectful of other people's beliefs. Even better, ask people about what they celebrate and how. Diversity is beautiful.

Some people don't have anyone to celebrate with. Be a friend.

The holidays are for giving. If someone does something nice for you, pay it forward.

Be as charitable as you can - but remember that the Salvation Army is full of hate. Consider giving elsewhere: buy that food package at the store. "Round up" when asked. Donate to St. Jude's.

Just... slow down and take a few deep breaths. All of these things are really things we should be doing all year - but the year's end is a good time to check ourselves and refocus.

Be kind to one another. Above everything else, be kind to one another.