Thread by @Swordsfall1, It's night time.Let's talk about being safe in BDSM. I had a [...]

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Swordsfall1

It's night time.

Let's talk about being safe in BDSM. I had a number of messages about good resources and I did some research!

Before we get into links, remember. Safety. Just cause it's kinky doesn't mean it's ok to not feel safe.

Ok?
Ok.

So first link is a nice overview of Safe, Sane and Consent.

http://hellsc.com.au/safe-and-kinky.html

This one lays out some good basic rules to take to heart.

This isn't some complete list but it's a good start! https://badgirlsbible.com/bdsm-rules

8 Vital BDSM Rules To Keep It Safe, Sane & Crazy-Kinky

Before you let someone truss you up or tie you down, take a look at these BDSM rules to ensure you're playing safely and smartly, not dangerously.

https://badgirlsbible.com/bdsm-rules

This one are warning signs for Fake Ass Dom's.

Cause that shit is an ISSUE. https://vocal.media/filthy/13-signs-of-a-fake-dom-every-submissive-should-know

13 Signs of a Fake Dom Every Submissive Should Know

BDSM can be a wonderfully freeing experience, or it can be straight up abuse. If you want to avoid the latter, keep an eye out for these worrying signs of a fake Dom.

https://vocal.media/filthy/13-signs-of-a-fake-dom-every-submissive-should-know

Because Subs can be just as bad, here's a signs of an Unhealthy Sub. https://boldpleasures.com/kinky-life/relationship/red-flags-of-submissives-in-bdsm/

Red Flags of Submissives in BDSM - boldpleasures

When submission is becoming unhandy or unhealthy - let's look at what could be potential red flags of submissives

https://boldpleasures.com/kinky-life/relationship/red-flags-of-submissives-in-bdsm/

And finally, something that is overlooked too often.

Aftercare. It's important! https://badgirlsbible.com/bdsm-aftercare

The Complete BDSM Aftercare Guide: Learn How To Do It Right.

BDSM aftercare is necessary way to heal wounds and prevent emotional and physical damage after intense sexual activities. Learn how to do it right.

https://badgirlsbible.com/bdsm-aftercare

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