It's night time.
Let's talk about being safe in BDSM. I had a number of messages about good resources and I did some research!
Before we get into links, remember. Safety. Just cause it's kinky doesn't mean it's ok to not feel safe.
Ok?
Ok.
Let's talk about being safe in BDSM. I had a number of messages about good resources and I did some research!
Before we get into links, remember. Safety. Just cause it's kinky doesn't mean it's ok to not feel safe.
Ok?
Ok.
So first link is a nice overview of Safe, Sane and Consent.
http://hellsc.com.au/safe-and-kinky.html
http://hellsc.com.au/safe-and-kinky.html
This one lays out some good basic rules to take to heart.
This isn't some complete list but it's a good start! https://badgirlsbible.com/bdsm-rules
This isn't some complete list but it's a good start! https://badgirlsbible.com/bdsm-rules
This one are warning signs for Fake Ass Dom's.
Cause that shit is an ISSUE. https://vocal.media/filthy/13-signs-of-a-fake-dom-every-submissive-should-know
Cause that shit is an ISSUE. https://vocal.media/filthy/13-signs-of-a-fake-dom-every-submissive-should-know
Because Subs can be just as bad, here's a signs of an Unhealthy Sub. https://boldpleasures.com/kinky-life/relationship/red-flags-of-submissives-in-bdsm/
And finally, something that is overlooked too often.
Aftercare. It's important! https://badgirlsbible.com/bdsm-aftercare
Aftercare. It's important! https://badgirlsbible.com/bdsm-aftercare