Last week, I was part of a panel discussion about free speech in Australia today. The talk touched on a range of issues - 18c, press freedom and #metoo
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"What& #39;s sexual assault?" he asked. Which, in the context of a wide-ranging conversation about #metoo
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His mother went to mouth an apology and the microphone was ushered to the next questioner.
Imagine being that kid. Summing up the courage to actually ask a question to an adult audience about something you don& #39;t understand, and suddenly getting non-verbal feedback that you& #39;d done the wrong thing and not knowing why or what.
After what felt like a fair bit of awkward silence, I realised this kid deserved better. I pointed out that there was nothing wrong with his question and that it was a brave thing to ask about. I told him the topic makes adults uncomfortable, which is why people panicked.
Of course, it& #39;s not my place to explain sexual assault to him - and I told him that he needed someone who knew him better and who he trusted to have that chat (his mum was there, and they would have chatted later) but that he shouldn& #39;t be ashamed for asking.