Good thread but i do feel like they're still bordering on saying that bdsm is still isnt really something someone should want by the last two tweets. BUT that being said, still good thread. BDSM is not for everyone. Just cause horny people on twitter like choking https://twitter.com/zamarudd/status/1197512315622567937

Doesnt mean everyone does. I've always been very kinky but like, I didn't like choking at first and that was completely my choice. But one thing I felt like I had to do because of how normalized it is and because of how many guys like it was Anal. And I still regret not saying

That I didn't want to try that. Because sex is something that we need to meet all of our comforts. We can't just compromise our personal comfort for our sexual partners. And by saying that light bdsm is now considered " pretty vanilla" people are now being subjected to acts

They did not want to participate in . And like one person I saw in this thread, they were then shamed by their friends for not enjoying it. Which is a BIG yikes. Anyways Light BDSM acts are not vanilla. People who like bdsm are not just people with issues. I mean I got issues but

Most of them do not seem to tie in with my kinks. And it's fine if they do. What's important is that theres a safe, sane, and consensual space to do your stuff in. Anyways that's my piece on kinks for today. Still a good thread but that piece just sounded like the person

Had a bias against BDSM. Which can definitely be safe its just that some people are terrible to be trusted with this stuff.