A Story for Traumatized Subs and Advice for Doms THREAD

So I have a lot of trauma which means I was very sensitive sexually in the beginning of my relationship with my dom. I needed him to be super soft all the time. Even the slightest motion that could be taken as aggressive...

Set me off (this included faster thrusts) and I would ask him to stop immediately and he always did. Over the last year we’ve built so much trust that I know he knows what my boundaries. I went from a sensitive baby who could not handle a hard dom in any capacity to a sub who...

Trusts my dom enough time tell him “I don’t want to think” and completely surrender to him. My point is that if a doms is understanding of a sub’s trauma and is patient with them and willing to build trust you’ll get a loyal sub who will live to please you.

Now I want to stress that “be patient and understanding” DOES NOT MEAN “pretend to be patient for a week and then they’ll be your slave” I AM A YEAR IN WITH MY DOM AND WE’RE JUST NOW REACHING THIS LEVEL OF TRUST.

To all my subs out there, traumatized or not, a good dom will NEVER make you feel guilty for not being comfortable or wanting to do something. A good dom will never make you feel guilty for asking them to stop in the middle of sex. A good dom will listen to you and alway want...

You to feel safe and happy. Stay safe, Babes. And to all my doms out there if you know patience is not your thing don’t pursue a traumatized sub.