Not sure if a hot take but I believe

Unconditional love is useful for parents who need to help their child learn what& #39;s right or wrong

Conditional love is useful for peers and relationships, where people find like minded people and help meet their needs as often as possible

I don’t believe, in most contexts, people should aim for unconditional love

I think people live better lives when they tell the people around them what is expected for a relationship to feel loving

I think the ultimate relationship goal is conditional love where all parties are meeting all of the conditions almost constantly

I& #39;ve heard that phrase so often touted as the best, most praise-worthy thing, to "unconditionally love"

I just don& #39;t buy it, and I think it& #39;s worth mentioning

I think it leads to resentment and unfulfilled expectations never communicated