Not sure if a hot take but I believe
Unconditional love is useful for parents who need to help their child learn what's right or wrong
Conditional love is useful for peers and relationships, where people find like minded people and help meet their needs as often as possible
Unconditional love is useful for parents who need to help their child learn what's right or wrong
Conditional love is useful for peers and relationships, where people find like minded people and help meet their needs as often as possible
I don’t believe, in most contexts, people should aim for unconditional love
I think people live better lives when they tell the people around them what is expected for a relationship to feel loving
I think people live better lives when they tell the people around them what is expected for a relationship to feel loving
I think the ultimate relationship goal is conditional love where all parties are meeting all of the conditions almost constantly
I've heard that phrase so often touted as the best, most praise-worthy thing, to "unconditionally love"
I just don't buy it, and I think it's worth mentioning
I think it leads to resentment and unfulfilled expectations never communicated
I just don't buy it, and I think it's worth mentioning
I think it leads to resentment and unfulfilled expectations never communicated