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One of my biggest gripes in this industry is how SCARED everyone is to talk about their failures. Everyone's happy to boast about their successes and feel like they need to hide their failures from public eye in fear of being perceived as if something is wrong with them. (Thread)
Then you end up with a group of insecure people who blunder behind the scenes and think they're alone in their experiences because they don't have good things just "happening" to them like everyone around them tries to showcase their lives as.
You know what failure makes you? It makes you human. You know what sharing your failures makes you? It makes you relateable. It shows others that you are not much different than them and have your good and bad days like everyone else. It makes others feel not alone.
I guarantee you every single person you've seen on this platform that carefully showcases their public image as one of only success has had their share of blunders, frustrations and many kinds of failures. They might not share them, but believe me, they've failed all the same.
For every single success I've had, there has been a story of failure preceding it where I've made mistakes and learned from them. Failure is nothing be ashamed of. It is part of the process to success. Making mistakes, even if we pretend it isn't, is an integral part of the game.
I swear to God that when you have the courage to be transparent and vulnerable in your experiences in good AND bad, you will attract equally as HUMAN and authentic people. The ONLY people who will be turned off by your transparency of imperfection are the most insecure of humans.
Sometimes I struggle to post about my "wins" because I don't want to make other providers feel inadequate or like something is wrong with them because they're not getting the same kind of bookings/gifts. I know the feeling too well and I'd hate to make someone else feel that way.
We as a community need to become more comfortable sharing our wins along with stories of the failures preceding it. This way, other people watching can see, "Hey, they had similar experiences like I've had and still made it to success, maybe I can do the same too."
None of us are much different than each other. Our journeys are more similar than you think. We all make a lot of the same mistakes. If one of us can go through all the BS and still make it to the other end, all of us can. 
Happy weekend my loves. I LOVE YOU GUYS
Happy weekend my loves. I LOVE YOU GUYS
