So, my 11-year old is now a 12-year old.

For birthdays and Christmas, he doesn’t make a list. Never has. Maybe asks for a specific thing or two but generally leaves it to me.

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It’s a combo of him being remarkably unmaterialistic and knowing I know him well.

Before this bday he asked for some walking-around money to do things with his friends but left the rest up to me.

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I love that.

I let it simmer and marinate. I look around and think. And invariably, something clicks and I’m like “YES. That is it.”

This year there were some clothes and a comical volume of socks.

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The marquee gift though was a road trip to Philly to a Sixers game.

He’s a suddenly passionate basketball fan. The @sixers are his team.

Last year, his drum/line played halftime for them. He met legendary Sixer, Allen Iverson, in the tunnel.

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I let him pick any game.

We’ll road trip it down early and hit up Reading Terminal for roast pork at DiNic’s.

Then hit up Jim’s on South Street and split a cheesesteak.

It is going to be a whole thing. A whole day-long thing.

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For the gift box, I searched and searched for some Sixers merch.

Couldn’t find a single jersey or t-shirt. Five stores. Couldn’t even find a damn hat.

Finally, I stopped at one last place. They had one jersey.

Perfect.

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He’s excited. I’m excited.

No, I’m more than excited.

I am shining like a new dime.

Childhood memories are like strings of Christmas lights.

Stretches of time un-illuminated interrupted by pops of bright colors. Bright moments. Things remembered in sharpness and color.

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It is just a basketball game.

But is also a long drive in the car where he’ll play DJ all the way down.

And it’s also a detour for epic sandwiches we’ll talk about long after.

And it’s our first time at an NBA game together.

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Above all though... it’ll be a bright light on his string.

It’ll be a day that I know he’ll remember long past this year and long past this season.

We will make it so - and so it will be.

I am so damn excited. So. Damn. Excited.

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