What Sagittarius Moon needs to be emotionally fulfilled:

Sagittarius Moon grew up with a mother who was mentally/emotionally distant and controlling at the same time. Her head was always elsewhere... being a mother wasn’t something that came naturally to her. Sagittarius Moon mother equates controlling/smothering to mothering.

Sagittarius Moon’s mother can be overwhelming. She isn’t very present but when she is around, she can be very stressful with her demands and expectations. This caused Sagittarius Moon to be under stress a lot which disconnected them from their “negative” emotions as a way to cope

There are a lot of things that Sagittarius Moon wasn’t allowed to do because they were told it was “wrong” with little to no explanation and they may have seen the adults do contradictory things. This creates confusion.

Because of the contradictions Sagittarius Moon experiences with their mother and the adults around them, they end up feeling a lot of stress and “weight” around emotions because processing their environment wasn’t really a realistic possibility.

This causes Sagittarius Moon to slightly dissociate and live in their head. Sagittarius Moons often block out a lot of things that happened in their childhood because it just didn’t make sense.

Because they block out a lot of feelings from their childhood, these things brew underneath the surface in their subconscious and they can keep their feelings and emotional connections pretty surface level.

You’ll be closer to Sagittarius Moon in their head opposed to in their heart. The reason why is because feeling deeply means feeling EVERYTHING and with the amount of emotional pressure they felt as a child, they do everything they can to avoid feeling that again.

Sagittarius Moons often look at emotions and thoughts as “right” and “wrong”. They’ve internalized the dictatorial style of their parents. When they do this, they’ll try to reason an emotion or thought to sound better than it is.

They don’t want to feel anything “negative (wrong)” because they still anticipate getting in trouble. Even though they’re adults, they still have to do everything, feel everything, think everything “right”.

This causes Sagittarius Moon to be out of touch with their needs and deeper aspects of their personality. They only access the parts of themselves that’s deemed as “right”

For Sagittarius Moon to be emotionally fulfilled, they have to acknowledge their full range of emotions. They need to deduce their emotions to their simplest forms without making excuses for others which in turn slowly invalidates, over simplifies and silences their feeling.

So. Instead of saying “I’m sad but that person didn’t know any better” stop at “I’m sad.” Sit with that. It doesn’t have to make sense. It doesn’t have to be “right”. There’s no way for your feelings to be wrong.

Get comfortable with going deeper. Ex: “ I’m angry. I’m angry because xyz chested on me. That makes me feel betrayed. Feeling betrayed makes me feel like I’m not good enough. That makes me feel sad. I’m sad because I feel rejected.”
Allow it to be just that.

Also, Sagittarius Moons have to relearn and redefine what intimacy means. Because one or both of their parents are usually controlling, intimacy feels stressful, overwhelming and violating. Become emotionally intimidate with yourself first by REALLY getting to know YOU

Do you really like to do xyz? Or do you do it because u feel like you’re supposed to? Start with the things you picked up from your parents and notice how u FEEL when doing/eating/etc that thing. Do u really like hanging with that person? Or do you feel like you’re supposed to?

Then start building intimacy with others. Intimacy isn’t smothering a person, allowing them to control you or just being physically around them or sex. Intimacy is letting your guard down, letting someone hear your true thoughts.

Letting them see your true feelings and not just the dramatic reactionary ones. Intimacy is a choice. Choose to allow someone to see you with your guard completely down and notice when you feel nervous about doing something “wrong” around them.

Sagittarius Moon needs to undo the stress from the past so that they can truly open up to the present and let their guard down.

I forgot something... Sagittarius Moon also has to work on emotional and overall accountability. Not being accountable for your feelings is also a method of dismissal regarding your feelings. Be HONEST about how you feel and don’t just project everything onto someone else

You have to unlearn the ways you saw your parents not be accountable for their behaviors and actions. Dodging the truth does not erase the truth. Process any anger/resentment you have towards your family for that too