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So what you mean when you say you only like natural girls is that you only like girls who fit into every painstakingly classist fatphobic racist ableist and limiting definition of what someone is supposed to be (just by chance ofc +never made).
Please reflect on your biases.
Please reflect on your biases.
I often get booked simply b/c of my privileges (white, skinny, class passing, able bodied, cis) and while Im grateful for the financial stability this affords me, it really kills me to hear these clients say they're 'not into' one of my peers for an aforementioned reason.
There's so many reasons this is fucked up, but most of the time it simply comes down to clients stereotyping providers based on their own perceptions, and limiting their own capacity for attraction because of the way we've all been socialized under capitalism.
I really urge clients to look deeper and think harder on why you think you have 'a type', who is included in or excluded from that, how society likely taught you this, and how these ideas serve you. (Sorry to break your bubble but often times they dont!)
I work hard, but I have so many peers who bust their ass 5x more than me on a daily; some offer more services, some are better at certain acts that I am... like its just dumb for a hedonist like most of us to be missing out on everything that a diverse pool of people can offer!
I could say so much more about this but Ill leave it at this...
Clients,
You only live once; be the best you can be, be good to people, see humanity in others, and dont restrict yourself from truly amazing experiences because of dumb lies the media told us.
Clients,
You only live once; be the best you can be, be good to people, see humanity in others, and dont restrict yourself from truly amazing experiences because of dumb lies the media told us.
Also if you're a client who's having some hesitation about seeing a certain 'kind' of provider, send me a DM and Ill be happy to help you process and interrogate it. I really think you'll be glad you did (embrace discomfort in the name of growth and change).
