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When a guy have earned respect in his family, whoever he present as an intending spouse will be respected. There will be transfer of same respect.
In fact, sometimes when parents are bent on deciding a spouse for their son, it is because the guy has taken enough disastrous decisions in his life that parents feel that he is about making mistake as usual.
Even if you are from a home where the palm kernel have been cracked already by a benevolent spirit, there should be a sign that you are truly grown to take decisions. It should be clear to all that you are matured enough to be given some level of independence to run your life.
Whoever take you to his/her people to be set up for a useless test in all probability will make a bad spouse. He might lack the capacity to protect from external aggression.
The tests, involves stocking up another's emotions unnecessarily in other to see their reaction, this is using human as your lab rat, it is not a true test of people's attitude.
There is a usual wicked craving for people to fail your test so that your effort can be rewarded.
There is a usual wicked craving for people to fail your test so that your effort can be rewarded.
In fact, it is sheer arrogance to think that another person should be tested while you sit at delusion seat of judgement untested. The tester usually assume some level of superiority mindset to ascertain if another is good enough.
My point is,relax,natural occurring disputes and management capacities should decide if you can spend your life with someone NOT a cooked up drama which intends to provoke another.....you are not a witch.
Test is consciously creating dispute in this life that is already filled with disputes, you should rather be learning dispute resolution because every relationship will be tested naturally on how to fix issues.
So why provoke disputes when we are not even sure that you have capacity to handle the ones that will certainly come unprovoked?
Carry your insecurity far from where people that have sense are biko!
Carry your insecurity far from where people that have sense are biko!
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