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It's the last day of #AceAwarenessWeek & I wanted to talk a bit abt the ace rep in #EightKinkyNights (out 12/3)
I'm currently #amediting & just finished honing a scene where the gray ace MC & the stone MC each talk abt the specific challenges of negotiating sex for them.
It's the last day of #AceAwarenessWeek & I wanted to talk a bit abt the ace rep in #EightKinkyNights (out 12/3)
I'm currently #amediting & just finished honing a scene where the gray ace MC & the stone MC each talk abt the specific challenges of negotiating sex for them.
CW sex
I'm demigray ace & stone, both of these POVs are ownvoices. I really enjoyed writing this pair & showing how they navigate a rship that's sometimes sexual, esp as a central aspect of the book is both MCs working on honoring their own needs, desires, boundaries & consent.
I'm demigray ace & stone, both of these POVs are ownvoices. I really enjoyed writing this pair & showing how they navigate a rship that's sometimes sexual, esp as a central aspect of the book is both MCs working on honoring their own needs, desires, boundaries & consent.
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It's rare to find ace spec rep where the ace spec MC has a v active sexual history that's rather complicated & includes sex that was technically consented to but not actually wanted, where the arc of the story is about honoring your own consent more deeply.
It's rare to find ace spec rep where the ace spec MC has a v active sexual history that's rather complicated & includes sex that was technically consented to but not actually wanted, where the arc of the story is about honoring your own consent more deeply.
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It took me a long time to reconcile my own demigray aceness w/my own complex sexual history, erotica writing & kink & sex education work, & I wanted to write an MC who was grappling w/those same things & with the reality of reworking sexual boundaries in those contexts.
It took me a long time to reconcile my own demigray aceness w/my own complex sexual history, erotica writing & kink & sex education work, & I wanted to write an MC who was grappling w/those same things & with the reality of reworking sexual boundaries in those contexts.
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I'm hoping this rep helps other ace spec folks see themselves on the page & esp folks who may have been told that they can't be ace spec because they've been too sexually active/are assumed to be too into or comfortable with sex. Those messages made things v hard for me.
I'm hoping this rep helps other ace spec folks see themselves on the page & esp folks who may have been told that they can't be ace spec because they've been too sexually active/are assumed to be too into or comfortable with sex. Those messages made things v hard for me.
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Eight Kinky Nights is complex & it grapples with these things deeply & openly. I need an abundance of stories that do that, & hope mine can be one of many that include these kinds of ace spec representation.
Eight Kinky Nights is complex & it grapples with these things deeply & openly. I need an abundance of stories that do that, & hope mine can be one of many that include these kinds of ace spec representation.
Right now, I can recommend these two contemporary romances as ones that center ace spec MCs who have been substantially sexually active. These books mean a lot to me & I'm very glad they exist.
-That Kind of Guy by Talia Hibbert (m/f)
-Thrown Off Track by Tamsen Parker (m/m)
-That Kind of Guy by Talia Hibbert (m/f)
-Thrown Off Track by Tamsen Parker (m/m)
If you are interested in pre-ordering #EightKinkyNights you can do that at the links below. This is a full length f/f Chanukah romance.
Gumroad:
https://gumroad.com/l/EightKinkyNights
Zon:
https://smile.amazon.com/Eight-Kinky-Nights-Chanukah-romance-ebook/dp/B07XVV9FCX/
Add to your Goodreads here: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/47494597-eight-kinky-nights
Gumroad:
https://gumroad.com/l/EightKinkyNights
Zon:
https://smile.amazon.com/Eight-Kinky-Nights-Chanukah-romance-ebook/dp/B07XVV9FCX/
Add to your Goodreads here: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/47494597-eight-kinky-nights
So, "full length" is a bad way to phrase this. All fiction is "full length" for it's size. I apologize for the size queen implications. I deeply love short stories & novelettes & novellas & will keep writing them.
What I intended to say was that this is a novel.
What I intended to say was that this is a novel.