Don’t unblock him. There’s no heartfelt apology coming. There’s no phone call with him pouring his heart out to you. You got to your breaking point and blocked him BECAUSE you fucking waited long enough. You waited for him to “change.” He didn’t and won’t.

Don’t unblock him.

I mean GOD. You gave him SO. MANY. CHANCES. Do you want to be disappointed again? Feel stupid again? Feel tempted to reach out and beg for answers, AGAIN? No. Don’t backtrack. You made a choice, now stick with it. Move on. Seriously. Blocked. Out of sight, out of mind.

Listen. Remember all the pain that this person has caused you. Remember all the sleepless nights. Remember the miserable blur that you were in. Remember when you couldn’t function. Remember when you couldn’t stop crying. They had so many chances to “fix” it and didn’t.

is it obvious that I'm speaking from experience orr lol