In this season of grad applications, a few humble words of advice to #prospectivegrads. When reaching out to prospective advisors, please do so with patience, persistence, & positivity. Here's why: (1/n)

On patience: yes, we're all busy, & no - that isn't an excuse for a non-response. But: we really love our jobs, & sometimes that means we're *really* bad at saying no to things. We're often especially bad at saying no to an outstanding prospective student. (2/n)

We have to say no for all sorts of reasons - funding limitations, maxed-out lab groups, or personal commitments. These reasons aren't the fault of a prospective student, and they're rarely something you can change. (3/n)

We want to handle that interaction well - perhaps with a personalized response, perhaps with advice, or perhaps pointing you to another opportunity in another lab/institution. (4/n)

But, that e-mail that is really important paradoxically gets put off, because we tell ourselves we want to find that perfect moment to give it the thought & care it deserves. So, please be patient... (5/n)

...and be persistent. If you've identified a prospective advisor who's a really perfect fit for you, & you haven't heard back, get after it! Send a follow-up e-mail a week after the original, or pick up the phone (phone calls are good). Be ready to talk projects & goals. (6/n)

And finally, positivity: this is the most important thing. If you ultimately don't get a response, please understand that that is *in no way* a reflection of your potential as a student & scientist. (7/n)

We all get ignored - a lot! But that's life in a crazy, over-committed world. If you have any doubt about that, ask a professor/professional how many prospective advisors either never responded to them or ghosted later in the process. My record is in the double-digits. (8/n)

Keep your chin up, keep up the good work, and onward! You've got tons to offer, and the world needs you. Don't get discouraged. Good luck!! (n/n)