After the initial feeling of “love” I definitely think love becomes a choice..u choose to love the person ur w everyday, u choose to become better for each other n urselves, n u choose to make the relationship work no matter what. Otherwise, u choose to let go.

Honestly, some days, ur gna dislike/hate ur partner... love doesn’t always mean the relationship is gna be amazing or work out everyday. Ppl look up to couples that have been together for 10+ years but can u imagine the heartbreaks n hardships they had to go thru to make it work?

That’s why I believe the statement “sometimes, love isn’t enough.” Cuz two ppl can love each other so much, but still want different things as individuals n just won’t work together.. it happens a lot. They choose a different path rather than choosing to continue theirs..

Hence, I believe that love is ultimately a choice. I dnt think ppl can fall out of love easily, I think they just want to focus on themselves or something else in their lives more significantly. It’s sad but it’s true, n that’s why relationships are A LOT of work.

Thank yall for coming to my TED talk! One love!!!!!!!