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This is Why She Loves You - A Thread
(Trust me, you want to read this.)
(Trust me, you want to read this.)
Speaking non-fictionally, there is nothing as 'Love at first sight', that's just a kind and socially acceptable way of expressing your feeling that gets triggered when seeing an attractive person.
Love can never be found because it is actually developed.
You may like someone's smile and feel like you're really attracted to that person but it's no big deal. The problematic thing is realising and finding out if you guys are compatible with each other or not.
You may like someone's smile and feel like you're really attracted to that person but it's no big deal. The problematic thing is realising and finding out if you guys are compatible with each other or not.
I am just saying that love is not found but nurtured and watered. If you are a guy and you're in a relationship, you may know that the reason she loves you is not that you brought her flowers and chocolates on Valentine's day.
She loves you because when you had an awesome day at work and she had a terrible day and was feeling kinda off, you weren't like "wait, wait... lemme tell you about my day" but you sat with her and listened to her terrible day and didn't say a word about your awesome day.
She loves you not because you commented "looking beautiful babe" on her Instagram but because you remembered to compliment her when she had a nice haircut.
She loves you not because you ordered pizzas but because when you woke up in the morning and went to the kitchen to get yourself a cup of coffee, you brought a cup of coffee for her too without even asking her.
She loves you not because you let her use your phone but because when you went to that restaurant together, you weren't facing a smartphone screen but you were talking to her and looking into her eyes directly.
She loves you not because you don't flirt with other girls but because when she's around her friends, you praise her more and give her your full attention.
She loves you not because you say that you care for her but because when she left your place and booked a cab, you went with her and checked on the driver thrice to make sure she gets home safe.
She loves you not because you let her have your coat on a winter night but because she senses your warmth and feels the familiar smell of your cologne wearing it.
She loves you not because you kissed her lips so damn hard that she wouldn't ever forget it but because when she leaned on to you to kiss you, you gently cupped her face with your hands and kissed her forehead.
That's why she loves you, that's why.
She loves you because of your efforts!
Here's an example, what does brushing your teeth 2 times a day for 2 minutes do?
Nothing special... until you do it daily.
She loves you because of your efforts!
Here's an example, what does brushing your teeth 2 times a day for 2 minutes do?
Nothing special... until you do it daily.
Can you go to a gym for a day and work your ass off for 9 straight hours and say that you are now grown into a muscular man with 22" biceps?
Fuck no, but if you went to the gym for 2 consistent years and worked out for even 10 minutes a day, you will see huge improvements.
Fuck no, but if you went to the gym for 2 consistent years and worked out for even 10 minutes a day, you will see huge improvements.
It's the little things that matter and not the big ones.
She'll love you more if you wake up in the morning and make her realise how much you love her before you open Twitter for your fucking feed.
She'll love you more if you wake up in the morning and make her realise how much you love her before you open Twitter for your fucking feed.
Just put in a little effort, that's what's rare. That's the single truth for finding an eternal lasting partner.
You see, love can never be found because it's never actually lost in the first place.
You see, love can never be found because it's never actually lost in the first place.
We all have that seed of love that when sown even in an infertile land with even a teaspoon of efforts can result in a happy and fulfilling relationship. You just need to put in some efforts. Would you want an email on your b'day or a handwritten note?
Handwritten note obviously.
Handwritten note obviously.
Because the handwritten note requires a little more time and a little more effort than emailing someone.
Small things make a huge impact.
Giving her dozens of roses on a day and ignoring her the other wouldn't do much. You need to be consistent loving your girl.
Small things make a huge impact.
Giving her dozens of roses on a day and ignoring her the other wouldn't do much. You need to be consistent loving your girl.
She wants to tell the world that you're only hers, she marks you with her lips so that no other girl could ever snatch you away from her.
Complimenting her hairs more than her waist, asking about her day, constantly checking up on her without ever being too clingy.
Complimenting her hairs more than her waist, asking about her day, constantly checking up on her without ever being too clingy.
Noticing even small-small details about her, asking her about her shoes, helping her in finding out about the mystery island she has always wanted to be on. These are the things that she's seeking otherwise every guy is the same and why would she ever love something so common?
Love her like she deserves, keep her like her father would've kept her.
One last thing, before you ask her out. Make sure that you're really really into making babies with her.
Now go enjoy your life, it's short.
One last thing, before you ask her out. Make sure that you're really really into making babies with her.
Now go enjoy your life, it's short.
