Quick Twin Flame Story: I dreamt of this man a year before I met him. I saw his beard & suit very clearly in my dream. The suit was a clear distinction. I met him on tinder & I just knew my ancestors had sent messages about HIM. I decoded them all wrong. He was an abuser.

He designs men’s suits for a living and owns a clothing company. Makes sense, he must be the man they showed me in my dreams. This means we’re supposed to be together.

We started dating last April and it was euphoric at first. We where planning to do life together. A few months into this, I miscarried during a really stressful time in our relationship & shit with downhill from there.

Meanwhile, I had invested almost $6,000 in him and the future we had been planning together. He started to exploit the fact that I’m a therapist by telling me he was depressed & suicidal etc. This gradually turned into ghosting etc.

Boom. It’s November and he tells me he needs a break. Cool. Then, next thing I know, it’s over. Fine. But where’s my money?

He makes up lies about losing his job, family crisis, and a whole bunch of shit now that makes absolutely no sense. I had a car accident in November that totaled my car. Spiritual adviser said it was a physical manifestation of the toxic relationships. But I didn’t listen.

I continued to try to make it work & support him spiritually & emotionally. In February, I had a fire in my room. I knew this was my grandmother trying to tell me something. She died in a fire (murder-suicide when my dad was 6).

So, I sat amidst the smoke , cried, and asked “Grandma, what’s up?” She said “Search Ryan’s Name on Facebook hit put “love” before it. And I’m like:

I search him, AGAIN (he told me multiple times he didn’t have a FB. I was following him on here, IG & Snapchat so I didn’t really understand) but his wife popped up.

I call her immediately and she’s dismissive and blocks me.

So now, I know what’s up and obviously lose my shit. He kept a telling me “it’s not what you think. I’m not married. I’m trying to leave. Blah blah eat a dick, Ryan. Blah”

So, I’m still trying to figure out- if he’s my twin flame then this must be the 3rd party shit everybody be talking about in their readings. IF ITS ABUSIVE AND THEYRE MANIPULATIVE- LEAVE. Don’t pass go, do not collect $100. Get your shit and GO.

His wife reached out to me at the beginning of this summer. She said she was initially shocked and didn’t know how to respond. They’d been married for 2 years and well, he had been with me for 1 of those years. We cried on the phone together for almost an hour.

This was one of the messages that followed our conversation

“Black women need each other.” Ryan still refuses to be accountable for his abuse, lies, and he still hasn’t even paid me back but spirit still found a creative way to help me heal.

I hate that she felt compelled to do his work for him and apologize etc but I’m so grateful for the healing that we both experienced.

I messaged her last week just to check in and I’m like, how do I have a better relationship with my ex’s wife than I do him?

My ancestors had sent me a warning in my dream. I was despitely craving to be loved so naturally I made all the signs about what I wanted and not what was going on in my reality.

Are you telling yourself the truth about your current relationship? If not, you’re only delaying your recovery & healing.

Leave toxic MFs alone. Twin Flame, Soul Mates IDGAF. If they manipulate you, spiritual & emotionally abuse you, make you feel like shit- leave. No partner is worth sacrificing your mental & spiritual wellness. Thank you for coming to my tedtalk.

Now, I’m single and living into my life purpose. I’m fully intune with my ancestors & universal wisdom. Can’t keep a bad bitch down forever. Truly, unfuckwithable in some of the most holy ways possible. What a difference a year makes!

Everything that’s looks good ain’t good for you. I don’t care how good it smells, how will it’s dressed. Idgaf if it’s the best thing you’ve ever tasted in you life...