I remember telling my friends about how I experienced harassment and stalking in school when I was in 3rd grade.

That experience was the reason why I get scared and paranoid whenever I find out that someone secretly likes me.

I told myself that I’ll never be victimized again.
I always told myself that if someone touches me without my consent and it makes me uncomfortable, then it’s time to speak up and fight.

Putangina I let myself down

I thought I am brave enough.

I could not believe that I let someone take advantage of my silence.
I tried to brush it off, thinking that some men might just really be clingy and touchy.

I tried to show this dude [that I thought was my friend] that I am uncomfortable by jokingly letting go of his touch everytime he gets clingy and all but brooo I guess he never got the memo.
And:

IT IS NOT A WOMAN’S RESPONSIBILITY TO TELL A MAN WHEN TO STOP BEING TOUCHY.

It doesn’t matter if you’re friends; it doesn’t matter if you’re gay or bisexual or pansexual.

Not being straight does not give you an excuse to just touch a woman whenever you want to.
IT’S UR JOB TO KNOW UR LIMITATIONS

Do not be stupid to just say sorry when it is all done and when she is already mad at you.

“Sorry” does not fix anything, dude.

I am trying so hard to forget how you gave me a back hug while I was peacefully eating, minding my own business
I am trying so hard to forget how you jokingly told me “pakiss” multiple times after seeing my new haircut.

It does not matter if it is a joke or not, what matters is how you made me feel.
I am trying so hard to forget... seeing your face after I tried to see who was slapping my butt repeatedly.

I was expecting to see a close girl friend when I look behind to check who was slapping me.. coz I won’t mind that. That girl and I do that all the time.
That was the moment when my heart sank. Because I realized that it was not that girl friend slapping my butt. It was you...

I am trying so hard... to forget how you slapped my butt several times while laughing, after seeing me wearing shorts backstage. I know you had fun
You thought it was funny. You did it in front of other guys WTF. I did not have time to process what was going on because I was about to get onstage. I lost my mind. I wanted to scream. But I couldn’t. I had to focus. I had to be in character.
I tried to forget... I swear I did.

Putangina akala ko okay na ko

Hanggang ngayon na tapos na, naaalala ko pa din haha salamat sa trauma

Walang pupuntahan ang “sorry” mo

Ang sakit lang na dun pa nangyari sa may stage kung san akala ko pinakasafe akong gumagawa ng passion ko
Putangina hindi excuse ang pagiging di straight or ang pagiging friend sa paghawak sa babae!!! Kung yung iba komportable sayo, puta wag mong isipin na lahat na ng babae komportable din

Kung akala mo patawa tawa lang at dedma, sa totoo lang naiiyak na yan sa takot at galit sayo
Di mo sinasadya? Wala ka sa sarili nung ginawa mo yun?

Bullshit.

Eh tawa ka pa nga nung ginagawa mo eh. Kung di pa ko nagalit at di pa kita minura, di mo marerealize na sobra na yang ginagawa mo

Napakarami mong babaeng friends at sana wala na sa kanilang mapatulad sakin
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