Hi this small thread will be me venting about something so feel free to keep scrolling if you don’t wanna see that.

But also, GUYS AND GALS PLEASE DON’T EVER FEEL LIKE YOU OWE SOMEONE A SEXUAL FAVOR JUST BECAUSE THEY DID SOMETHING NICE FOR YOU

So this guy bought something for me a few days ago that he knew I wanted but I haven’t seen him years so I thought it was odd but sweet and he told me we should hang out so he can give it to me so I said sure and we hung out...

... and he didn’t really pressure me to do certain things but I did certain things. Idk why but in a way I felt like I owed it to him cuz he did something nice for me...

...but now I just feel stupid cuz before I left he said something along the lines of “I’m glad I got something out of this” and I’m like who tf says that.. like wtf.

I just feel so used

And the reason I even did that ~stuff~ for him was because I for so,e reason didn’t wanna make him feel used. Why am I even thinking like that? What makes me think I gotta repay him sexually for a nice thing he did for me? That’s fucked up low key.

GUYS AND GALS PLEASE DON’T EVER FEEL LIKE YOU OWE SOMEONE A SEXUAL FAVOR JUST BECAUSE THEY DID SOMETHING NICE FOR YOU

Also he wants to hang out again but I really don’t want to but idk how to tell him thatcuz I don’t wanna be mean but also I’m a people pleaser so I gotta remember that and do what makes ME happy and not worry about him but how do I tell him that...