A big reason a lot of relationships/marriages don’t last nowadays is cause y’all are constantly in each other’s faces even when you not together. Phones “can be” the devil if you “overuse” them in your relationship.

Your brain subconsciously gets conditioned/addicted to “constant communication”(like a drug) that natural small distance, a late reply or not answering your phone when your’re busy can cause issues, insecurities, real distance etc. in your relationship.

I would also prefer to miss my partner in more aspects than physical. When you “constantly” speak to someone on the phone, text, FT...and you’re a part of their every action, mood etc. When you’re finally together in person, the only new thing is that you’re “physically together”

Which is all crazy to me cause phones have only been around for a short period in our entire existence but they’ve already taken a dominant role in developing love which is naturally embeddd in us. People don’t realise how much love grows when you’re not in each other’s faces.

People used to leave the house & not hear much from their partner the entire day but when they got back together or met up, conversations meant a lot more and they developed true affection instead of lust.

I might just be slightly old school, idkhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤷🏾‍♂️" title="Achselzuckender Mann (durchschnittlich dunkler Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Achselzuckender Mann (durchschnittlich dunkler Hautton)">

Don’t get me wrong I’m not saying you can’t have genuine lasting relationships while constantly communicating but I do wholeheartedly believe that this is a leading factor in relationships not lasting.