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how my ex-boyfriend cheated on me with his blood-related tita
yes, you& #39;ve read it right. related sila by blood. pinsan ng nanay niya & #39;yung taong he& #39;s flirting with.
he introduced the girl to me. and we got fairly close. first time i actually got to talk to someone from their family. i was happy, since finally, i& #39;ll actually get the acceptance that i& #39;ve always wanted. at that time i wasn& #39;t close with his family kasi.
i wasn& #39;t suspecting anything. but time came that all his time were on that girl, let& #39;s call her AA. even on the moments we& #39;d play ml together, AA is still with us. even on voice calls. what the fuck, right? i started to get annoyed.
even on times he& #39;d comeover at my house, he& #39;s still messaging and even calling AA. i told my friends about how frustrated i was. but i keep on rationalizing it. THEY ARE RELATIVES, NOTHING BAD IS HAPPENING. but boy i was wrong.
his excuse, AA is just clingy. i tried my best to understand the situation. AA is from a breakup, maybe she needs time to heal. she even said na (not exactly) she& #39;ll give all her attention to my boyfriend since she has no boyfriend anymore.
he& #39;d always fetch her to the bus terminal every time AA goes to bataan. AA studies at manila and lives in bulacan kasi. he even went to the extent of going to manila and bulacan, staying overnight, just to be with his beloved tita.
i was fine with that kasi they were relatives. kahit na sobrang labo na ng relasyon namin no& #39;n. sobrang wala na siyang time para sa& #39;kin. every time i& #39;d call him messenger would say Avery Chris is in another call, only to see this picture being tweeted by AA.
november 11 was a very special day to us but that was the time that he said na friends lang kami. hindi pa raw siya ready. pero he would often hang out, get drunk and high with AA.
one time, i stayed over at my friend& #39;s house waiting for him since pumunta siya ng manila para sunduin & #39;yung kapatid ng friend ko na tropa niya. pagbalik niya may kasama na siyang isa pa, yes you guessed it, si AA.
they were going to have a drinking sesh, the tropa with the girl. i wanted to go with him kasi since we don& #39;t get much time together na. but he told me to stay put. naginuman kami ng friend ko while jamming to sad songs.
then my friend asked, "sino ba talaga sa inyo & #39;yung jowa?" tangina it fucking hit me. kaso still a dumbass bitch as i& #39;ll ever be. i just cried my eyes off. called him multiple times para ihatid ako pauwi. pero bumalik pa rin siya sa inuman para naman ihatid & #39;yung AA.
sobrang lamig na and malabo. but i still kept on holding on kahit & #39;di ko alam kung may kakapitan pa ba. i message him, chatted. pero & #39;yung replies niya cold, short, dry. he even said na i shouldn& #39;t message or call him since hawak ni AA & #39;yung phone niya.
we even chatted secretly para hindi mabasa no& #39;ng AA. here are some screenshots. he& #39;d always say na he& #39;s not ready pa and shit.
then ate girl butted in and said this. na the whole world is just against me and my ex& #39;s relationship when in fact siya lang naman pala may ayaw kasi gusto niya ex ko.
then they& #39;ve gotten into a huge fight. my ex came to me and ranted to me about AA. na masama raw ugali and such. i told him na makipagayos siya. i insisted na makipagayos siya since i know how happy he is when he& #39;s with her.
they never contacted each other again. we were finally okay. then sometime january, he confessed to me that AA liked her that& #39;s why they got into a fight. every time they& #39;d fight it& #39;s about me, he said. i was okay since it was one-sided. IT& #39;S FUCKED UP, but still.
then february, i was using his phone and found photos and conversations.
ta& #39;s i recently had a convo with AA. for fact checking. i really want to know the truth. and i want to know their sides why they chose to fuck me over.
after that he& #39;s just keep on getting worse. from punches to death threats i& #39;ve experienced them all from him. but that& #39;s another issue. he& #39;s manipulative, obssesive and a gaslighter. he& #39;s an abuser, physically and emotionally. he would often play mind games on me.
his mood swings are out of control. he& #39;d often get pissed at a petty thing and would punch walls and shit. one time he got pissed off while i was on the back of their tricycle. i was fucking scared. binirit niya & #39;yung tric, i try to get the brakes.
he told me na if i wanted to die that much pumunta raw kami sa highway. napakabilis ng takbo niya do& #39;n. i was fucking screaming and crying.
he& #39;d often call me dumb and stuff. he knows how fragile my self-confidence is.
my aunt who acted like my mother died and i was devastated and this is how he treated me.
these are the death threats i& #39;ve received from him, march 2019
