ok most of nct twt is oomfs with them but this shit genuinely needs to be done bc i’m sick of them not realizing they’re in the wrong. it’s twt so it’s not that deep but it is actually so ima get into it
so this is abt willow aka @/shi6hs
ok so to sum it up i used to be close friends with willow and we would facetime almost every day in our gc so all this stuff slowly started to add up
first of all. whenever i made jokes about racism i’ve faced, bc y know ... i’m fucking brown and i’ve actually faced racism so i can cope by joking about it... they would compare it to them being russian which is genuinely so insensitive and dumb-
cause i know you have never been discriminated against for being russian so why do you feel the need to compare it to genuine bullying and racism i’ve faced throughout my life.
like i would joke around saying “___ would tell me i smell like curry and that i’m dirty” bc i’ve been told that shit by white people before and they would say “yeah they would tell me i smell like vodka and that i’m a communist” ...?????
no they wouldn’t they wouldn’t know you’re russian if you didn’t even know you were russian till last year... so please don’t try and pull that insensitive shit around me.
and also i’ve told them how i don’t feel comfortable stanning oh my girl bc of that whole incident bc it makes me feel so gross yet they always told me to stan them like .. and they tried to dull the whole situation by saying “they didn’t have phones they didn’t know”
next topic.. them always looking for advice and our comfort yet completely ignoring us when we needed to rant. it’s ok to rant to me because i’ll always be there for you but if you just push aside my feelings when i feel like getting something out, that’s not ok
so you know when you have a friend group, it’s common sense that you’re all there for eachother and listen when someone needs to rant and understanding what they need. both ends need to be met
they ranted whenever they wanted and none of us had a problem we even tried to comfort them and offer advice and shit and didn’t start a new topic in the gc unless they wanted to. that same energy was never returned
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completely ignoring me when i needed to rant and switching the topic sometimes even immediately bc yeah that’s what you do when your friend is obviously feeling like shit
and this.. was so fucking serious like it was something that made me feel so shitty and i had to rant bc i didn’t know what else to do and right after they just go to the topic of looking for nct at the airport.. didn’t even bother pretending they give a shit
like idk if it’s just me... but that’s not how you treat someone that looks out for you and considers you a close friend.. but might just be me idk you know
so my oomf meg once gave willow her password bc they were switching cause they did that sometimes but this time they kept trying to log into megs account even though meg obviously didn’t want them on the acc. and still got in and laughed abt it, it’s not funny it’s inconsiderate
after meg soft blocked them, they made shit up and made all their friends think meg was some asshole that was getting all her friends to drop them when in reality, all those people had the same type of issues with willow and meg wasn’t forcing anyone to drop them.
i even told them abt how my main trigger was being neglected when i needed help or wanted to rant, bc of past incidents yet they continued to do the same thing over and over again.
hate me for this thread but i’m tired of this i’ve been mistreated by too many ex friends and if i put trust in you then i don’t expect you to do the same thing and i won’t let it go if you do. it’s not fair that i feel like complete shit and you go on thinking you were right
i just needed to let this off my chest and i know you wouldn’t completely understand if i dmed you privately you would just continue to apologize sadly without making efforts to change. you need to understand you messed up and there’s still room to grow
i know they’re gonna say that i should’ve talked it out with them but meg already did and i’ve already said my piece to them
also please don’t get involved if you know nothing about the situation, i won’t acknowledge you if you come to just blindly defend a friend
ok so there’s more info ,, this is info from 2017 and they deleted their acc so there’s no evidence but take it as it is
TW INCEST FOR TWEET ABOVE!!! i’m sorry i apologize i fucked up i should’ve tw’d