cheater.

a thread.

ok, let us all realize that our own definition of cheating varies and each situation offers a different level of pain.

so basically, cheating accounts everything that includes your partner having relations with another party. but let's settle this, either one of them is the prime suspect or just the accessory.

and despite being the accessory, it does not mean he or she owns up to the crime. maybe he or she was coerced, didn't know that the one he or she's been flirting with is already taken, or he or she fell in love in an instant... and that makes it his or her biggest mistake.

BUT nevertheless, he or she is just an accessory. let's focus more on the side of the prime suspect.

i utterly believe that they are really cowards... and stupid. they resulted to cheating because they think that they cannot leave their partner for a reason that they don't want to hurt him or her more. and they think that it would hurt them less if they hide it away from them

that they are already falling in love to someone else... someone better... or someone whom they found what they were looking for that they didn't found in their partners.

and basically, the partner could never accept that fact and the fact that they are already being replaced by the time he or she is still calling that cheater as his or her when in reality, it is in the process of earning the ownership of the third party.

and i also think that the third party is also stupid. he or she is also in control but neglects the fact that he or she has also the upperhand in controlling their relationship. LIKE SIS, U CAN JUST NOT REPLY TO THAT DAMN CHEATER WHEN U KNOW HE OR SHE IS ALREADY CHEATING.. UNLESS

YOU ALSO WANTED IT THAT FRIGGING WAAAAAAAY.

and i think despite listening to their reasons will make you feel more anguish. they will always think that it was just their biggest mistake to their partner when they want them back. and i agree to it when they will come back with a stronger love to their lover.

and that's okay. once a cheater will always be a cheater if it doesn't find his or her way back to the person they truly love. if they don't come back, never chase them. save yourself from another cheating drama, sis.