i don’t understand why people feel the need to be panphobic. like i don’t care if you don’t “understand” the sexuality but in the end if someone feels comfortable with a label and their identity makes them happy, why does it fucking matter?

also i’ll say it one more time. if you are not bisexual or pansexual you have ABSOLUTELY no authority to invalidate the way people of these sexualities feel or claim they are the same thing because you do not understand either sexuality fully

all these people using the “definition” of bisexual and pansexual to call them the same are also making me mad because i, a bisexual, absolutely do not feel a connection to the definition of pansexual, so how the fuck can they be the same thing?