Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship by Stan Tatkin

Emotional Unavailability: Recognizing It, Understanding It, and Avoiding Its Trap by Bryn C. Collins https://twitter.com/piatomica/status/1133193576739950597

Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself by Shahida Arabi

Parenting From the Inside Out by Daniel Siegel

The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind by Daniel J. Siegel

The Highly Sensitive Child: Helping Our Children Thrive When the World Overwhelms Them by Elaine N. Aron

The Highly Sensitive Person in Love: Understanding and Managing Relationships When the World Overwhelms You by Elaine N. Aron

Healing Your Attachment Wounds: How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships by Diane Poole Heller

Becoming Attached: First Relationships and how They Shape Our Capacity to Love by Robert Karen

The Emotionally Absent Mother: A Guide to Self-Healing and Getting the Love You Missed by Jasmin Lee Cori

When the Past Is Present: Healing the Emotional Wounds that Sabotage Our Relationships by David Richo

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson

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These books being bought and read are active ways of re-parenting your Inner Child and the Adult you, at the same time.

It really just takes one book at a time. Find ways to add it to your daily schedule when drinking tea or coffee or after a hot bath. Little steps are big steps

Get audiobooks if you cannot concentrate reading chapters. Make accessible healing easier for you.

Wombology: Healing the Primordial Memories and Wounds Your Grandmother's Daughter Gave to You by C. J. Johnson

Intimate Deception: Healing the Wounds of Sexual Betrayal by Dr. Sheri Keffer

Mirror of Intimacy: Daily Reflections on Emotional and Erotic Intelligence by Alexandra Katehakis

Path of Empowerment: New Pleiadian Wisdom for a World in Chaos by Barbara Marciniak

The Spirit of Intimacy: Ancient African Teachings in the Ways of Relationships by Sobonfu Somé

Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving by Charles Muir

Self Sabotage Syndrome by Janet G. Woititz

The Intimacy Struggle: Revised and Expanded for All Adults by Janet G. Woititz

Womb Awakening: Initiatory Wisdom from the Creatrix of All Life by Azra Bertrand M.D.

The Path of the Goddess: Overcoming Childhood Sexual Abuse: Prompts, Prayer, and Ritual (Womb Healing Workbook) by Tahtahme Xero

Healing the Scars of Childhood Abuse: Moving Beyond the Past Into a Healthy Future by Ann McMurray and Gregory L. Jantz

Don't Call It Love: Breaking the Cycle of Relationship Dependency by Ann McMurray, Gregory L. Jantz and Tim Clinton

Recovery of Your Inner Child: The Highly Acclaimed Method for Liberating Your Inner Self by Lucia Capacchione

Childhood Disrupted: How Your Biography Becomes Your Biology, and How You Can Heal by Donna Jackson Nakazawa

Parent Yourself Again by Yong Kang Chan

Healing the Child Within by Charles Whitfield

Scripts People Live by Claude Steiner

Breaking Normal: ReWild Your Inner Child and Set the Truth Free by Daniel Eisenman