Many sexual predators pretend to want to be in a relationship with you. Once they get what they want they are gone. And they won’t leave until they have used your body in every way possible. And ‘using your body’ is EXACTLY how they see it. Family, this is the reality so wake up.

And 10% of the people who will attack this message will be sexual predators and the other 90% will be people who are in ‘relationships’ with sexual predators and are in denial.

Sexual predators are very good at making their victims (who desire to be in a relationship) attack people who warn them that they are being used and will be abandoned after use.

Sexual predators pretend to want to be in a relationship in order to better and more thoroughly use your body. If you have been in series of bad ‘relationships’ it is likely that many of your ‘partners’ never intended to be in a relationship in the first place. Sad truth.

The ONLY way to determine if you are with a sex predator/body user is to set sexual boundaries until some criteria is met that YOU determine. If they are not a predator and they are truthfully committing to you they will seek to satisfy that criteria no matter how long it takes.

If you have no criteria the predator will use you as thoroughly as they can until they grow tired then dispose of the ‘relationship’ to find another victim.

The sexual predator is a sociopath and will dispose of you AND they will make YOU feel like it’s your fault and leave YOU feeling INADEQUATE and broken.

Sexual acts don’t make sexual predators stay. Sexual acts alone don’t make anyone stay.

Sexual predators will make you feel like you give "the best head." Its a lie. In fact even if your so-called "head game" is trash they DONT CARE. All they care is that they put themselves in your mouth. That is it. The pleasure comes from the act and doesnt matter who you are.

These are some awful truths but I have to tell you this.

Understand that a sexual predator can be in a relationship with you for months if not years and not give a * about you. And you will never know until they grow tired of you

Making you do things and serve them is the only goal of the sexual predator. Some sexual predators also have the added 'benefit' of using you financially.

Once you set sexual boundaries the sexual predator WILL leave you. Period. There is no doubt in this.

Sexual predators praise their victims in public so as to make potential victims feel jealous or inadequate and want to do the same. It is in the best interest of sexual predators that people who get used think getting used makes them better than those who are not getting used.

This point is most important

This kind of talk is ESSENTIAL for people who seek spiritual cultivation to hear because sexual predators are a type of vampire/spiritual parasite.

Trying to make yourself proud of what a sexual predator makes you do does not change the fact that you are that predators victim. You're only setting yourself up to be used by yet another predator. Set sexual boundaries now before you end up giving head to (yet another) predator.

Sex 'gurus' are often predators.

They will use 'spirituality' like other sexual predators use the promise of a serious relationship. Just a trick to use your body up until they are satisfied or no longer interested because you set up boundaries.

Sexual gurus who are predators will make you equate 'being spiritual' with destroying boundaries and making your body accessible to them.

This kind of talk is not what I want to talk about Its what I have to talk about.

beyond ' love and light' spirituality should make you open your eyes to the dangers around you . predators will tell you that everything I am saying is 'fear based'