I’ve been fucking 💀 from being a chaser, so I don’t want to hear it. That’s the worst & lowest you can go. How much more is that suffering than 2 literally be so over it you kill yourself? I’m only here anymore bc of intervention. That pisses me off. Runners have it worse my ass
I’m pretty sure a good amount of twin flame chasers end up committing suicide, too. I know I did.
A runner KNOWS someone wants them & manipulates & takes advantage of that shit, abusing their position. Fuck them. They have to get over that. That’s why you have to stop wanting their ass or chasing. 😡
What I am reading is just confirming to me that runners are assholes & know it & they have the woe is me thing going on with total disregard to how they hurt others.
If you are a runner that truly believes that, y’all some fucking assholes & that’s exactly why it’s not working. Claim to have empathy, but really don’t. What if you claimed to love your chaser, but bc of it drive them to suicide? I’ve already lived that scenario.
It is only pure intervention from the other side that has kept me here. And still my runner acts the same damn way. And still nearly everyday I contemplate doing it again & hoping it sticks this time.
Most of the time I just want to be dead to be free of that shit. Constantly being denied is not cool & it’s not a cute little dance. The runner does not suffer more in any way except for the shit they do to hurt themselves. And they can get off on feeling in control & wanted.
Which is exactly why I won’t chase my runner like he wants. He wants the ultimate power kick of that. To also reject me to my face. Runners are runners bc they need to get their heads straight & chasers need to stop giving in & indulging their bullshit. They’ll just keep doing it
I killed myself & he still does it! So how much further can you go?
The runners are the torturers. 😒
They serve the devil & separation more than the chasers do (who serve truth), so think about that.
He could claim I am being the runner now, but I am not. I am being the resister. I am staying firmly planted where I am & won’t just fly off over any whim of his will or manipulative hints. He must communicate clearly & directly with me & stop the bullshit. Flexing my will.
I say it’s going to be union or nothing. I won’t chase him like a fool. You chase a runner & I have learned, they just use it against you. Runners are on fucking power trips & cycles of deception & destruction.
And what would prevent the stupid constant runner/chaser thing & the runner being secretive about what they think or maybe even punishing the chaser? Clear communication. Chasers know how to do that one. The answer is standing your ground & clear communication.
Otherwise the problem IS runners not wanting to clearly communicate, hold all that power, still serve deception & manipulation, & be assholes. Don’t let them. Let them go, unless they are going to communicate. No running, no chasing.
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