Venus, the Malefics and the Relationships with Women

With Mars in (hard) aspect to Venus, you may find conflict with your relationships with women. You may find that women often feel like they have to compete with you, all isn’t fair in love and war.

Sometimes women feel like you’re too masculine, this is an aspect in which you’d rather be around more masculine energy. Women want to make you more feminine. Women want you to be dainty. Women notice a striking beauty.

Women hold anger towards you, women try to one-up you when it comes to men (or other women), women feel like they have something to prove to you. Women can’t handle your sexual heat, women slut-shame you. Women catch onto your highly-charged sexual energy.

Women feel aggressive about your appearance as Venus is the planet of beauty, especially if your Venus aspects your Ascendant as well. Women can’t be number one standing next to you. Women envy your leadership qualities, women take notice of the way others notice you

With Saturn in hard aspect to Venus, you can feel rejected by other females, restricted by them and feel like you don’t compare to them early on since Venus/Saturn is the late bloomer aspect. It’s hard to have long friendships with women.

You encounter women who make you feel inferior because no one on the corner has a swagger like you. Women treat like you’ll never be good enough. Women who make you feel bad or guilty for being a woman. Women are negative towards you and what you aspire to be.

Women shit on your ambition, women enforce restrictive feminine traditions on you, they sabotage your reputation, women fuck with your boundaries—these instances can make a natal Venus/Saturn build high walls against relationships with women, makes you cold towards them.

With Pluto in hard aspect to Venus, there can be a lot of jealousy, envy, power struggles with women, women who make you feel powerless, women who think you’re dangerous or women who pose a danger to you. Female stalkers.

Women who try to control you, women who blackmail you, Women who obsess over your sexuality. Women hold a lot of rage towards your anima and sexuality, women are repulsed because of the taboo you embrace in your womanhood, your sexuality. They want to have it themselves.

With Venus in aspect to Pluto, women act violent towards you, make you the black sheep, women are fearful of you, they see you as a threat—You are fearful of women, women manipulate your sexuality. You don’t want to hand control over or trust them.

Neptune in aspect to Venus

Women deceive you. Women confuse you. Women may mislead you. Women may try to mold you into what they want you to be. Women take advantage of your compassion, your sensitivity. You run into women you want to save and they don’t want to be saved.

With Venus/Neptune, women spread harmful rumors about you, women lie to you and preach it as the truth. Women may tell you false secrets in order to get to your secrets. Women set you up to sabotage yourself. Women have hidden motives when it comes to you.

Women take advantage of your spirituality. Women present themselves to you as a fantasy, women let you down when they’re nothing as they claimed to be. Women see your weak boundaries and they get under your skin. Women betray you when it comes to who you’re in love with.

Women secretly conspire against you, you never know how you feel when you’re around them. Do they like you? Do they not like you? You don’t know. Your relationships with them are unstable. Women are addicted to you—Women exploit you while you’re under the influence.