Women rarely ever ‘just leave’.
Before a woman leaves her partner, she’s usually translated to them MULTIPLE times exactly what she’s unhappy about, exactly what’s wrong with the relationship & exactly how things can be fixed.
When all falls on death ears,
Yes she will leave.
And no, it won’t ever be random.
If men listened to women more & stopped perceiving everything as ‘nagging’, they would effectively be able to preserve the situation.

I think the problem is men aren’t as vocal about their concerns, so when women are, they perceive it as problematic.
It’s not our fault you were taught to gloss over emotional or mental issues in your life.

Communication is healthy.

Communication is necessary.

Communication is not ‘nagging’.

Get your head out of your ass once & learn how to take constructive criticism.
No, it doesn’t mean you’ve failed.
No, it doesn’t mean you’re a FAILURE.

It simply means, ‘Here is how you can be better’.

If you don’t fix character flaws, they’ll continuously follow you into the next relationship & the next & the next.

When there’s no one left to blame
for ‘nagging’, you’ll have to face yourself.
Eventually.
We literally tell you everything that is wrong lol multiple times over.
There’s no room for confusion.

Next time remove your ‘here she goes again’ receptors.

A woman will beautifully keep arriving to the same point of a problem until it’s resolved.
We’re nurturers. It’s in us.
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