It's okay to be the villain in someone's story. I know you wish you weren't but if you are, it's fine.

If you messed up to earn that title, learn from it and do better.

If you were misunderstood and that title was foistered upon you, don't worry, you won't die.

We want to be liked, we want the world to think well of us....we want people we've encountered to remember us fondly.

Life seldom works that way. We are creatures of habit and our bias colours everything. You do it, I do it.

Which is why, validation must always be internal.

Inadvertently you will hurt people and inadvertently people will hurt you.

There has to be a part of your mind that can process these feelings and then absolve yourself of them.

Your life is luggage....to live best you must travel light.

LEARN AND THEN LET IT GO.