Moon/Pluto people can I talk to y’all right quick?

Y’all listening?

Ok.

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YOU CANNOT CONTROL THE PEOPLE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS. YOU CANNOT MAKE THEM SERVE YOUR EMOTIONAL NEEDS. THEY CANNOT FILL YOUR EMOTIONAL VOIDS. STOP THE MADNESS

I’m speaking from a place of love. I have the Square and used to do the same shit.

Anyway,

YOU HAVE TO LEARN HOW TO HEAL YOUR OWN SCARS AND EMOTIONALLY FULFILL YOURSELF WITH JUST YOU OR YOU WILL NEVER BE HAPPY IN A RELATIONSHIP

YOUR PARTNERS ARE NOT WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE SOME KIND OF HOLD ON THEM. THEY WILL LEAVE FOR GOOD IF YOU KEEP UP W THE BULLSHIT

YOU NEED TO FACE YOUR WOUNDS AND DEAL WITH CHILDHOOD TRAUMA, ESPECIALLY IF IT HAS TO DO WITH MOM, BEFORE YOU TRY TO MARRY OR SERIOUSLY COMMIT TO SOMEBODY.

OTHER PEOPLE CANNOT GIVE YOU THE DEEP SATISFACTION YOU CRAVE UNTIL YOU GIVE IT TO YOURSELF. YOU CANNOT SPEND YOUR LIFE WAITING ON SOMEONE TO BOW DOWN TO YOUR WHIMS.

YALL BITCHES GOTTA LOVE YOURSELF FIRST AN GIVE YOURSELF THE WORLD BEFORE ANOTHER PERSON CAN

I could go on, but imma stop here.

My Moon/Pluto friend is being blinded by pseudo emotional fulfillment and I don’t want anyone else to go out here and make that same mistake.

Coming back to add bc it’s been months since I typed this and my thinking has changed. Someone can love you even when you don’t love yourself, but you may find it difficult to love THEM when you don’t love yourself, Moon-pluto.

The constant fear of abandonment and emotional turmoil is bc a apart of you only knows love that’s given as destruction. You have to know that you deserve better, and you can have it too.