Lesson IV- Reclaim your Throne Now ! (The Winner Paradigm)

Why do you want to be the King ?

Pretty simple
You want to Succeed, and you want Power
That's your only purpose, your only Mission
and this is the Frame you are going to hold to obtain it

Royal Thread

Here is a deeper level of understanding the core value of being a King. After learning the basics, and in a way to truly embrace your new status, the following will help you know why you should be pursuing the Winner status in the first place.

The alpha male/beta male breakdown lay on a simple mathematical formula: Confidence / Success. As you can guess, being alpha is directly linked to success and not only aggressive dominance,

Yes, these traits are very masculine ones but that does not imply being an alpha male by themselves. You can be a very aggressive thug, but still be a failure by your overall financial and social status which makes you a beta.

You surely don’t always need to be the epicenter of everyone’s attention. Think strategically, and do not be the needy guy. The superior alpha male is the one who does not give a shit about what people think.

However you should feel empowered in you social life, I recommend to follow a simple trick: Replace what does not work. If you feel that people around you have nothing that benefits you or the circumstances are unfavorable in a given social interaction, don’t force it.

You will appear weak and lose momentum. Instead, find another group/ social interaction where you master the outcomes.
Do not fear failures, they are inevitable and a part of the game.

But remember the winning and obtaining what you want from life, is the essential purpose of your journey and that's exactly what being IS !

You’re not the King till you live your life on your own terms. Avoiding responsibility, following, and obeying are the main components of the beta male mentality. You are more the ball than a player for a football analogy.

You will find around the Internet a real dichotomy of what constitutes an alpha/ beta male behavior, even my thread series show what a King behavior should be like. But do not get trapped with rigid guidelines.

Do not go foolishly on betting on a misplaced confidence which would inevitably lead to failure. Forcing yourself to act in a certain way because “that’s how alphas do” makes you a dumb beta. Failure is not alpha unless tactically leading to success.