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So peep. Shorty and I started at my church the same day. It was my first day as a Youth Pastor and she was secretary to the principal of our Christian School.
She was at her desk and all I saw was that hair
when She turned around I was like 
. I literally said âWoahâ
She was at her desk and all I saw was that hair
when She turned around I was like . I literally said âWoahâ
So I donât talk her for like the first week because sheâs FINE, and well, Iâm not. So I knew off the bat that it was a miss-match. I didnât even try, homie.
I inquired about her to my home girl, and I found out she had a man.
I inquired about her to my home girl, and I found out she had a man.
I donât believe in taking someoneâs girl because if you can take her from someone, she can definitely be taken from you. So I left her alone.
Even so, I went home to Facebook stalk shorty because I had to see for myself.
Even so, I went home to Facebook stalk shorty because I had to see for myself.
And yâall. I found her twin brother before I found her. His cover photo was a picture of the two of them.
And all of a sudden I heard this phrase come out of my mouth.
âBro, you donât know it. But Iâm gonna marry your sisterâ.
And all of a sudden I heard this phrase come out of my mouth.
âBro, you donât know it. But Iâm gonna marry your sisterâ.
Donât know why I said it. But I did 
and Iâve said I was gonna marry someone before.
But this time it didnât even feel like it was me saying it.
. There was a huge peace that came over me, and I just let it be.
and Iâve said I was gonna marry someone before. But this time it didnât even feel like it was me saying it.
. There was a huge peace that came over me, and I just let it be.
The next year was interesting.
To make a long story short, I asked shorty out. She said yes!
I found out that friend that said she had a boyfriend lied to get with me
We went on three dates.
To make a long story short, I asked shorty out. She said yes!
I found out that friend that said she had a boyfriend lied to get with me
We went on three dates.
After the 3rd date shorty came into my office and told me that she didnât see it working out. She had no peace about it, and couldnât see her self being a Pastorâs wife.
It hurt me. But for the first time I didnât fight God. I let Him close the door on that chapter.
It hurt me. But for the first time I didnât fight God. I let Him close the door on that chapter.
Four months later shorty came back and told that she made a mistake and wanted to see if I would give us a second chance
She was a whole different woman.
She was already faithful to church and was a servants. But her heart was different. She was much easier to talk to. It just flowed.
This was the first time a girl left me and then came back. I was shook.
She was already faithful to church and was a servants. But her heart was different. She was much easier to talk to. It just flowed.
This was the first time a girl left me and then came back. I was shook.
10 months later, I put a ring on it!
I finally told her about what I said the night I saw the picture of her with her brother. You know what this woman said?
âThatâs crazy because the first day you walked into the office I thought to myself, âthatâs my husbandââ
âThatâs crazy because the first day you walked into the office I thought to myself, âthatâs my husbandââ
She said she dismissed it because she knew what I was there to do and what I wanted to be, and that she didnât see her self on that path. She loved the Lord, but couldnât see herself being in ministry.
Thatâs wild. Because since then sheâs:
Been my soul winning partner, done nursery, taught childrenâs class on Wednesday, helps in childrenâs church twice a month, sings in the choir, and has sang specials.
That girl ainât know God had plans
Been my soul winning partner, done nursery, taught childrenâs class on Wednesday, helps in childrenâs church twice a month, sings in the choir, and has sang specials.
That girl ainât know God had plans
In 23 days we will celebrate our 1 year anniversary.
Itâs true what they say: âWhen you know, YOU KNOW!â
To those single: Be patient! God knows what you need! I was ready but she wasnât! He had to grow her before He could pair us! Wait on the Lord!
Itâs true what they say: âWhen you know, YOU KNOW!â
To those single: Be patient! God knows what you need! I was ready but she wasnât! He had to grow her before He could pair us! Wait on the Lord!
It goes to show that we donât know the mind of God. Donât overshoot Him. Follow Him, and this is just one of the many areas that He will bring light to in your life!
