It& #39;s interesting that 2 people can be in the same relationship, yet have completely different experiences.

You& #39;ll be there rating yourself A+. Try giving your answer script to your partner.

I can guarantee you you won& #39;t completely like the result if they answer honestly. https://twitter.com/seyiakiwowo/status/1048296905745227776">https://twitter.com/seyiakiwo...

Not because you& #39;re a bad partner. But because nobody is perfect.

What differentiates an excellent partner from a mediocre one is that one accepts feedback and implements it, while the other thinks they& #39;re perfect.

Some evaluation/check the temperature of your relationship/regular check up before engine knocks questions you should be asking if you& #39;re interested in being a better partner.

How am I doing?
What would you like me to do better/stop doing?
Ask for specific examples

Your initial automatic response would be to defend yourself.
"But I& #39;m trying!! You don& #39;t see all the good things I do! You only focus on my faults. You too you& #39;re not perfect!"
If you can just pause that initial reaction and listen. It& #39;s hard o. And counterintuitive.
Just try it

Or don& #39;t. Whatever. I& #39;m not licensed yet. And you& #39;re not a paying client.