Sebenarnya penilaian orang lain terhadap diri kita sendiri itu penting ga sih dalam kehidupan yg kita jalani?
Saya ngerasa penting bgt because in this point i think i don't even know who I am and i think your opinion about myself has already valid enough for building who i am more.
Gila kan? w bisa jatuh sejatuhnya perasaan umat manusia hanya karena somebody just said that I'm not good enough sampai akhirnya smpai dgn mau gimanapun "sy di posisi salah"itu harus segera mungkin dihindari or at least i will never approve my own fault was caused by me.
Dan akhirnya sudah berdamai dgn diri sendiri and it feels kinda good. Yg jdi masalah sih masih...all of the decisions that I made besar bgt dipengaruhi sama kata orang,ceritanya ini dll so that's why i can be the most easy going person when it comes to making friend/acquaintance
But it would never happen on giving trust,keeping in touch with someone who wants to get to know me better etc. It's kinda hard for me now huhu maybe we're not elliminating our social circle but it has happened based on how we treat someone who's already in our social circle.