When I say don't prioritize men I am not chastising your need for companionship (it's natural). I am not saying don't value dating or marriage to men. No, but don't attach YOUR worth to these things.

We must learn to separate something being valuable and finding value in it
I will continue to tell women not to prioritise men because we have been socialised to do so. Men are not the epitome of your existence. Find value and worth from within and enjoy the companionship of men from a healthy place and not out of low self esteem and need for validation
Men don't prioritize women and that's the real tea. Yet men are always in relationships. Men have careers, friends an entire existence outside of their relationships. If yall break up he continues, next week his in Love with someone else. This is what we mean lol
Please understand clearly, a man can love you but you're not validating his existence. Men don't spend their post teen years trying to be the right one, the husband a woman is fasting for. Men live their lives if they marry they marry. If they don't they don't
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