Some of you ladies like to ask of men, what you’re either ill-equipped or simply unwilling to reciprocate.
You will say you want a sensitive, expressive man, and then not know what to do when he expresses himself.
Range of,“it’s not that deep”, “Oya sorry now”,”I don’t know what to say” and the greatest one: “Wow”.
You will complain of not getting attention, then proceed to take said attention for granted.
You don’t return calls, but keep waiting for the usual calls, and have the nerve to be mad when he doesn’t call.
No initiative to check in on him.
When he’s open/vulnerable and sweet, you take the piss.
When he lays his complaints in a conversation, you say,”I’ll fix up”, and then do nothing.

It’s when said guy starts to move madder than you that you realise that it’s not all fun and games.

Why?
You see, it’s normal to want freebies, but this shit isn’t free.
It’s a mutual exchange.

It’s not your current partner’s fault that his/her predecessors weren’t doing the things you like. Don’t punish that person for the previous ones’ failings.
By all means, enjoy yourself and bask in the good treatment, but do not get so carried away as to not return the favour.

I’m giving of myself to you. If you don’t complete the circle by givin back to me, then my cup runs dry.

Don’t wait for me to bounce before fixing up, yes?
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