Sex has killed so many relationships. People cheat thinking that they will be fulfilled wherever they go. You will never be satisfied until you truly understand what a relationship is
Also I’m seeing people coming at my statement sideways. Listen not everyone is in a relationship. Some are in meetings,taxis and organisations. Please don’t come here with your circus. I’m talking to mature people in relationships. Not clowns who want RTs please.
I actually wanted to make a thread but the replies needed my attention. It’s clear that most people get the message I’m trying to convey as for others, you can go bite the dust.
Actually let me make a thread
1. A relationship with your partner should be similar to your relationship you have with your parents. It should only differ when it gets to intimacy #AusBassieTalks
2. Your parents want nothing but the best for you. They want you to be the best version of yourself. #AusBassieTalks
3. You don’t love your parents because they give you money and spoil you, you love your parents because of the priceless things they do for you e.g being there for you at all times and the sacrifices they make to give you a better life #AusBassieTalks
4. We’re not perfect, your parents will reprimand you here and there until you get it right. They never throw in the towel. Similar to the mistakes we make in a relationship. We talk about it and learn from the situation. #AusBassieTalks
5. People will compare parenting skills but that does not make you any less of a child. They will compare your relationship with others and try to make it look uselsess, don’t fall for it #AusBassieTalks
http://6.You"> http://6.You forgot most of the toys your parents got you and the amount of money they spent on you. But you will never forget the beautiful memeories you have created. Therefore, intrinsic benefits are greater than extrinsic. #AusBassieTalks
Let’s take a young break before we get into it.
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Now here’s the thing, anyone can have sex with you. Give you outstanding strokes and all. But if it’s not genuine then it’s a waste of time #AusBassieTalks
The heart knows exactly what it wants. You will experience all kinds of sex from coke, pepsi, oros.. listen when the heart wants water.. give it H2O. Because you will go around drinking all sorts of fluid until you get sick #AusBassieTalks
Also, cheating is a choice. When people write tests..some cheat and get great marks and others write truthfully and accept their low marks. You can get away with it but you know it kills you deep down inside #AusBassieTalks
There’s no such thing as bad sex. Sometimes you just need to talk to your partner and tell them how you like it. Stop assuming that we know , we don’t know. Relationships are about learning your partner everyday #AusBassieTalks
We need to stop treating bad sex like a disease. It gets better through communication. #AusBassieTalks
If you do not communicate with your partner nothing will ever go right. You will sleep with different partners, mind you..this only makes things worse. #AusBassieTalks
You have multiple partners but still feel lonely. Automatically getting you into depression mode. See in relationships it’s all about quality not quantity. #AusBassieTalks
It’s not about the number of times you say I love you / the number of gifts you buy / the amount of money you give. #AusBassieTalks
It’s about the FEELING. You don’t have to bring the moon and shift the earth’s position in space for me to feel you. It should be natural and effortless.. no pressure darling.
Sex is not an asset by the way, it’s Equity. Sorry for going all Accounting but I need to explain this in many was as possible. Assets(A relationship)= (Benefits)Equity + Liability(Duties&Responsibilities). #AusBassieTalks
Let’s take a young break again please. In the mean time..
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Believe it or not. Sexual intercourse goes hand in hand with spirits. Now if you sleep with multiple partners you obtain all sorts of spirits. Now this is a downfall of a man. Not all women are pure. #AusBassieTalks
Sexual spirits exist by the way. Then people will blame it on witchcraft. No it’s got nothing to do with it, you bring it upon yourself with these multiple partners with bad intentions and ill omen. #AusBassieTalks
Which is why it’s important to include God in your relationship at all time. I mean good or bad. #AusBassieTalks
Let me not tap into religion since it’s a very sensitive topic and I wish to not offend anyone by any means. #AusBassieTalks
It’s very important to protect your happy place. People will come at you side ways trying to ruin what you have. Don’t fall for it please. You’d think you’re cheating that time it’s a trap. #AusBassieTalks
Again , if you break a person’s heart. It’s registered in the book of life and the universe will exert the same energy towards you. Hence the way you get someone (when you hit someone with a brick) will be the same way you’ll lose them. #AusBassieTalks
Lasty, let’s be very clear.. I never said sex is not important. I’m against people who come into relationships just for sex. I mean you can buy sex and not emotionally drain other people for pete’s sake. #AusBassieTalks
Love is beautiful, Idc what people say.. it’s beautiful and it ends right there. I pray that each and everyone of you here gets all the love they deserve and more.
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As for the clowns, God bless you too
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As for the clowns, God bless you too
I have a sweater written “Bassie Said It”
Because I said it, unapologetically .. in the most humble way.
I’d like to believe that I’ve said more than a mouthful.
Thank you for reading my thoughts.
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Because I said it, unapologetically .. in the most humble way.
I’d like to believe that I’ve said more than a mouthful.
Thank you for reading my thoughts.
NB!!! NB!! Whatever I wrote in the above, applies for both men and women. Let’s not do this “and men are evil too”, “and women this and that”, just because I didn’t mention it does not mean I’m excluding the point. Let’s read with understanding please
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