This honestly makes me so sick and sad. Dommes we have to do better as a whole and CHECK on your subs well being and mental health. You can’t assume what a sub likes you have to communicate some shit may trigger them. #findom

Sometimes it confuses subs when I’m nice..and caring and want to know about their personal life instead of insulting them every second I get. They’re confused because they never had that type of treatment or any aftercare what so ever besides a thank you after they send. #findom

As I fight my own mental battles, I understand my subs.. which I don’t let the submissive title define them they are humans just like any one of us and deserve to be treated as such. #findom

Simply be sure to ask your subs what they like and what they don’t like. Ask them how their day is going. Show some type of sympathy other than being a bitch towards them 24/7.. then you wonder where you went wrong when they’re making excuses not to pay you anymore. #findom